@maxtrombly: Once you understand projection, life get's easier.. You realize how much drama you make up about the people around you and your family members.. you also begin to realize just how much of your power you give away to others and the stories you make up about them.
Ok but intent doesn't nullify impact. If someone does something that hurts me it's true that may not have been their intent. But they are still accountable for the impact. I agree it is easy to make up a story of why they did what they did and that is not helpful to repairing the relationship, but repair is still needed.
2026-04-04 15:56:32
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shakingmyhead🇨🇦 :
So do you mean that you cannot tell who a person is by your experience with them? I think repeated behaviour tells its own story and it has nothing to do with projection.
2026-05-07 20:50:07
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CARNIEMEDIC83 :
im an anxious attached person in my relationship. im also an overthinker, and i tend to project. fair to say im a fuckin mess who just realized all this about myself, and yeah dealin with all that is really a head trip, and i completely see where my issues were and i desperately need to change my patterns. ive grown so used to these patterns to me they're normal, but ive struggling tryin to figure why my fiance is pullin away from me. its a fuckin head trip for sure.
2026-05-23 22:29:18
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Gina Mia Passarella :
I'm smart enough to realize that although it's probably not about me, intent does not negate impact.
2026-04-04 07:37:16
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❌️ CharlieBrownGirl ❌️ :
PERCEPTION IS NOT REALITY. Thank you for this!
2026-04-04 10:53:20
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FL Wednesdayy Everydayy :
So “actions speak louder than words” are just us projecting what we think their intent is? I believe actions absolutely tell us what they mean
2026-05-22 10:41:41
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Toph thetruthkeepschanging.com :
The problem started before all of that. The projection comes from preparing for battle instead of preparing for presence. Projection is a lagging indicator of internal conflict looking for external causes. And calling people who project "not smart" makes no sense. I just wrote a free book about how i learned this.
2026-04-07 18:43:15
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Sabrina Austain-Ragl :
what if you ask them thier intention but they never answer. Thats is why I made it up. why is it so hard for people to share their intentions
2026-04-24 22:10:33
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Made.for.me. :
I am so grateful that I unlearned this toxic behavior.
2026-04-03 12:08:54
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Surviving2Thriving :
So when they mock me about an insecurity that I have and tell me it’s a joke that’s me projecting and it needs to be funny to me instead of a pain point?
2026-04-03 13:55:27
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Daryn Alexus :
I’ve started asking “do I have evidence of that” only things considered evidence are beyond a shadow of a doubt. I literally saw or heard it with my own eyes and ears
2026-04-04 22:42:37
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💜✨️Mandaleigh✨️💜 :
It all comes down to accountability. If I stay and continue to accept the behavior, that is on me. How I feel about it is on me. The only person you have control over is yourself.
2026-04-17 21:26:31
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SnakeEyeSnakeE :
Yes
2026-05-29 02:06:06
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Hehe Haha :
just the subject of this video deserves a follow 😁
2026-04-17 00:24:40
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Enrique ➡️ Houston Apartments :
Yes but how did you get your voice recording quality to be so good
2026-04-08 12:56:19
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lesliecorbin671 :
So true.
2026-04-06 21:57:42
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snafugirl :
Wise🙏
2026-04-08 23:49:51
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ssssssssssssss :
cancel assignment of motive!
2026-04-04 22:36:44
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jenray366 :
Duh
2026-04-04 03:24:27
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Ashley Schemeley :
this is really well said
2026-04-04 19:52:04
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Tristen K :
What would Jesus do
2026-05-08 02:50:56
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Lucius_Black :
Check out this TikTok I found! https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTkC73Bbs/
2026-04-25 11:08:43
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Amber Miller :
Damn
2026-04-06 22:54:03
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