@drbeckyatgoodinside: Everyone’s talking about this viral March Madness moment between Coach Brenda Frese and her player Oluchi Okananwa - and here’s what I want to focus on, and what it means for you and your kid. It’s about everything we *didn’t* see. Hard conversations don’t land in one moment. They land in the relationship built across so many small moments over time. As parents, we’re going to have tough conversations with our kids. The question isn’t how to avoid them. It’s: have we built a strong enough foundation to hold them? Connection first. Then correction.