@thebusyblendedlife: The hardest part of a blended family no one talks about โ the holidays where youโre justโฆ split. I took my kids to OK for volleyball for Easter while Scott stayed home with his, and even when itโs the right call, it still feels like two separate families. Nobody prepares you for that part. ๐ฃ #blendedfamily #parentinglife #holidays #bonusmom #familyholiday
Why is there a tournament on Easter weekend? That seems unusual.
2026-04-04 11:32:12
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Pedro Cruz :
Travel sports are a killer.
2026-04-04 17:41:07
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user4387521790645 :
The volleyball tournament on Easter is a big issue.
2026-05-06 20:04:28
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lady_j.74 :
I appreciate your honesty. It is hard!! Weโve been married 2.5 yrs , together for 8 and I feel like this all the time. I had no idea it would be this difficult to blend families.
2026-04-03 23:59:09
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tammybenbrook :
Glad you both can agree to go with your children
2026-04-04 00:49:51
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cathylynn2210 :
Totally get this! This happens a lot for us due to sports, itโs tough.
2026-04-04 00:01:48
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Paula Gee :
I experience the same thing at times. It is hard and I completely understand. Spending time with your children is important. Happy Easter to ALL of you.
2026-04-04 15:20:26
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Lisa Hill :
So understand. Handling kid time is the most difficult part of the marriage. I really do treasure the time I can spend with my two girls but I do enjoy when we all get together and it works! That just is not always the case.
2026-04-04 02:21:47
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jilltayse :
I follow you because I relate to being with a widower. I have come to realize it will never be the completeness I long for. Itโs no oneโs fault. It just is what it is. Love your honesty.
2026-04-05 01:35:07
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josieamiller5 :
SAME! We are in Cabot for VB, me and my daughter, but my husband is at home because his boys are in town for Easter. I feel all of this
2026-04-04 01:15:39
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Sunrise13 :
Thank you for keeping it real . It makes others feel like itโs not just them . There are so many hard things about relationships after divorce
2026-04-04 01:38:44
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8011972bucks :
Hang in there! As always, thank you for sharing! Good luck at VB and happy Easter
2026-04-04 18:34:25
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Kelly Blanks Hays :
You said it perfectly!
2026-04-05 00:43:26
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heather_ransom :
This is so much about how I feel.
2026-04-04 23:27:41
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sarahcoates82 :
I know how you feel! It always feels that way when we have the 2 kids with the one and the 3 with me at times too.
2026-04-04 17:40:13
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Katie Schubert :
I can totally relate
2026-04-08 23:23:35
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ashton livingston :
i was just thinking about this :((( iโll sure miss you guys ๐ฅบ
2026-04-04 01:25:48
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colleenwilly :
Good for you! Hope everyone had the best weekend!
2026-04-03 22:27:47
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Legilley :
I needed this today. Itโs a weird place to be and a lot of people do not understand. It can feel trivial, but itโs a feeling and youโve got to validate it and know that it is hard.
2026-04-04 13:49:59
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Becky :
It is a challenging emotion. I have it too!
2026-04-04 00:44:43
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scott.hunt70 :
It is just the way it is Itโs the circumstances
2026-04-04 13:32:06
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PumpkinGiGi :
We do the same thing!!!
2026-04-03 23:15:22
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user3829447702952 :
I know exactly what you mean. Ours are grown now and it still has those moments that are separate. Its not easy by no means.
2026-04-03 23:13:37
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tam :
I understand that feeling as well. Itโs a difficult time๐
2026-04-12 16:55:39
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mariana Powell :
I struggle with this one. I have to go to all of my kids events alone because his kids have sporting events on the same weekends. It sucks because it just feels so separate. Iโm currently expecting our first baby together and being pregnant and alone at these events are not fun. I pray for strength but inside of me Iโm wondering how this will affect our baby ๐
2026-04-30 13:46:09
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