Hey, advice from a middle aged lady here. The knowing you can feel something again is a gift. It's not about him. Let him go, but it wasn't a waste. It's about you and hope and love you have for yourself. Hold onto that.
2026-04-05 04:41:19
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Rainaway :
I was single for 6 years. So closed off to even wanting to get to know someone again. For whatever reason I decided to try again. Met someone. Experienced the deepest connection I ever have - (and I’m divorced) it lasted 3 mos then ended abruptly. The whiplash to my nervous system is the most brutal thing I’ve experienced. I had hope for the first time in a long time….and it was quickly put out. You’re not alone. No one understands unless they’ve been through it.
2026-04-04 16:02:24
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nursekaty🫀 :
I only knew him for 1 month, we dated, had a crazy connection that I hadn’t experienced in a long time, and it ended out of nowhere with no warning signs. It feels like I’m going through withdrawals.
2026-04-18 17:14:05
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Danielle :
It was only 2 weeks for me and afterwards I cried everyday and wouldn't leave my house for a month and a half.
2026-04-04 00:32:26
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Stephanie D :
How are we getting over it…
2026-04-06 00:55:00
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tessa :
no it actually is the WORST feeling
2026-04-04 20:49:12
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Lizzy :
Are you me? 😭 I feel so stupid for letting people in so easily. Best first date and now he’s ghosting me.
2026-04-05 02:08:12
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✨🖤 Arsenic Delight 💜✨ :
He took me from an anxious attachment to an avoidant attachment. I don’t want to even try anymore. What’s the point. Everyone is the same.
2026-04-05 12:28:26
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Kiki 🦋💛 :
Currently going through this only it was a month 🤦🏽♀️. I feel like I be shouldn’t be feeling this way and I hate it so much 🥺
2026-04-21 18:52:10
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kim :
sometimes tiktok scares me on how it KNOWS EXACTLY what i’m going through
2026-04-06 03:25:35
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maria 🦋 :
this is the most relatable thing I’ve read. it sent me into a spiral and made my nervous system go crazy
2026-04-05 12:47:35
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ari.fortunata :
I was in a 6 year relationship/engagment. My 3 month situationship I had before hurt worse to lose 😵💫
2026-04-09 18:38:29
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L :
Like I’m so embarrassed
2026-04-22 06:49:19
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hellostephco :
Of course people can relate. Because this is very normal. And it’s also normal that it hurts. And imma say this too, I hate that some of us live lives where deep meaningful feelings are so rare. It’s definitely not what we were taught life or love would be like. Be kind to yourself in this chapter. Remember, the one who loves never truly loses.
2026-04-06 02:20:26
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avaflava15 :
Silent repost- just know I was here 🥺
2026-04-23 16:55:15
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urbffmedusa :
girl 17 days and i was acting different as hell 😭😭 i was like damn why can’t i stand up rn
2026-04-08 06:54:16
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Cd :
Unfortunately it’s love bombing and it’s so lame. Currently going through this as well, hurt worse than my long term breakup 😂
2026-05-18 17:06:44
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Nitza ♡ :
it’s like worse than my first real breakup
2026-04-06 12:47:37
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kirtara green :
I wouldn’t say I lost my mind but it did make me feel sad when things ended abruptly
2026-04-06 01:11:57
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amyinherlane :
It’s been a year and I am still not over that man 😞
2026-04-04 22:24:09
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Estefi :
Oh this was me last February after three weeks of talking 🤡
2026-04-06 20:33:25
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Rina :
We literally don’t talk anymore but I think about him everyday. I know it’s no hope. Or future. It’s still hard some days especially when I see him.
2026-04-06 03:23:10
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Neviyah🧿 :
I needed this because trying to explain this feeling to someone without them thinking you’re crazy is impossible!
2026-04-05 20:45:38
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Alessandro Luigin :
5months and still get anxiety over the illusion of a bright future. He knew how to play my emotions.
2026-04-06 01:10:10
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T A Y L O R :
experiencing rn!
2026-04-05 13:47:23
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