@making_senseofit_w.katt: When your child goes no contact, the panic will try to take over and it will push you to do the exact things that make it worse. This video walks through the five things you must not do in that moment not because you don’t love your child but because fear will have you abandoning yourself, overexplaining, chasing, apologizing for things you don’t understand, and trying to fix something you don’t have control over. These reactions feel right in the moment but they quietly reinforce the very dynamic that keeps you stuck. This is about slowing that down, holding your ground, and protecting your dignity when everything in you wants to reach. You don’t need perfect words you need clarity, restraint, and the ability to stop feeding a system that is not moving toward you.#fyp #estranged #parents #relationships #nocontact
making_senseofit_w.katt
Region: US
Saturday 04 April 2026 05:26:43 GMT
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Angeline Marti :
its trendy to go contact with parents now
2026-04-07 01:42:40
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ChristineAnne :
I did all those things you said. 5 years my daughter was no contact I had given up when out of the blue she wanted to contact me which I was open to. But you see when someone gos no contact for any length of time it changes the relationship between them you can never go back, you have to find a new normal as the trust is gone forever. I cannot be myself around her anymore I watch what I say for fear she will cut me off again. I don’t know what the answer is adult children are hard I think everyone should not judge and just live your best life and do what makes you happy 💕
2026-04-04 13:18:10
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K.Wheeler :
Why can’t parents just admit that they are wrong sometimes?
2026-04-06 21:38:32
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Asiya8 :
It feels like grieving for someone who hasn't died
2026-04-04 20:19:53
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gorgeous_lemon_guidance :
What I am hearing is.. they get to do whatever they want..
2026-04-04 12:49:03
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Daniel 8:25 :
In short, IGNORE them and get on with your life.
2026-04-11 06:23:33
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Grains of Truth :
You lost me when you called it a narrative
2026-04-06 21:56:46
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John Lego :
Nonsense! If your kids/adult children don’t want contact, give them what they want. Don’t let your kids control you or what you do
2026-04-07 16:23:43
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Sarah J :
Children don’t go no contact for fun
2026-04-19 12:57:04
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James🇨🇦 :
Wise comments. Now what are 5 things that you should do in this situation?
2026-04-05 04:58:01
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Vicky Carter🇨🇦 :
I have 2 sisters that have gone no contact with me. its been 8 years
the hurt has gone now I don't care
2026-04-04 11:07:07
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Toni Bara💕 :
It’s been two years and if she reaches out, she’s reaching out to a different person. The fact she still didn’t come around when her brother died really made me shift gears. I’ve learned to enjoy those who choose to love and be around us. Spent way too much time grieving her and my son. Can’t live like that. For the first time in my life, I choose me. 💕
2026-04-07 19:11:11
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JP :
I dont know if I agree with this. im a. adult child who has gone no contact and I want my mum to ask questions and show that she cares? but she doesn't.
2026-04-04 20:23:36
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Fitzstorm :
“Narrative they created” mmmmk
2026-04-06 16:28:05
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Ozzieand :
Very one sided view of your child going no contact with you. Maybe try rewinding and changing the issue before it becomes an issue, then all of this can be avoided. As a child who has gone no contact with his father, I can with 💯 confidence tell you you are wrong ! If you want the relationship with your child then ask the questions, seek a remedy. Don’t just give us as suggested.
2026-04-04 23:59:42
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Dannie Wallace :
No contact with my 2 older adult kids not spoken in 10 years I gave up will never meet my grandkids I’ve accepted that I’ve moved on
2026-04-04 13:32:58
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Vikinggal🇨🇦 :
I’ve done none of these things. It’s been over for 3 years. Will is changed, disowned now. I’m healing and moving on. There is no reason to reconcile. It’s not a child but a full grown adult. Let them.
2026-04-04 20:25:03
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cathwo8 :
As someone who went no contact with her mother, I would love for her to reach out and ask questions.
2026-04-05 02:23:18
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MatoTanka :
When my son told me “ You’re a failure as a parent “ I told him “ If the person that is standing in front of me is the result of my parenting…. I can’t argue with that “ I haven’t had contact in years …and I’ve never been happier.
2026-04-04 17:17:19
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Dog mom🐶🐾 :
I think it’s trendy to go no contact with parents these days. Same as over using words like, “anxiety, triggered and such”. However, I do believe there are valid reasons some go no contact so we must try not to lump everyone in the same pot.
2026-04-06 14:53:23
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Norma De Vlugt867 :
You can't force nobody 2 love you period
2026-04-04 12:07:19
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Jimmer :
I agree with everything. My only issue is the way you say "narrative" infers that the child is wrong about the past and their relationship. Sometimes that child's "narrative" is actually true and real.
2026-04-04 22:12:40
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Peyoli :
I did all of these unfortunately, and yes, nothing worked
2026-04-04 10:32:39
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Mad Dog :
We were no contact with our daughter for 7 years. Decided at the start that we were simply going to live our life without her. She came back and apologized for everything she did.
2026-04-04 18:01:51
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