not.aninii :
To all the people grieving and having a hard time moving on and having resentment for him, you have to snap out of it my love. it’ll be okay. your heart aches knowing your body and brain has been though pain to relief, and pain to relief all the time. it’s just the person he used to be you miss, and people change…not all people in your lives are meant to stay and that’s what life is about. we grow everyday and we learn from our mistakes. he was your growth, he matured you, and you know that he won’t come back and that’s okay, because he was just there in your life for a good purpose to let you grow and realize some things you never knew you’d learn, like learning how to understand, communicate, and most of all, learn. Be thankful for everyone, regardless of enemies or people you dislike. They’re in your life or they were in your life for a reason. Now I want to hold your hand when I say this, please focus on yourself my dear, help yourself, see where you stand in the next chapter of your life. Dedicate yourself to something YOU aspire to be. See yourself standing in success, in a good college/university, I am proud of you. You are growing. It is not immature or relentless to cry, it is growth and prosperity for yourself, because every time you are adapting yourself to something you haven’t experienced. And that my friend, is pure success. No matter if yoh win or lose, every day is a good day. So please remember, you are enough, you are good, and you are valued more than you or anyone else can think about yourself. Be yourself, always. And always have a positive mindset no matter if people are rude to you. Never be like them, because in the end it never benefits you. Choose peace over pain everyday even if it hurts to do so, because in the end, letting go and suffering is an option, but coming back to him and suffering even more is never worth it, because in the end, you’ll grow and move on to a new chapter. Always remember, choose yourself over anyone whatsoever. You matter. Bless you my love. 💗
2026-07-29 04:28:08