Yes! When people ghost me I struggle with rumination about for years.
2026-04-06 14:26:27
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Aion :
I find this really relatable.
Some people tend to fixate on unresolved loops because their brain is wired to analyse and problem solve.
It can also be shaped by upbringing - for example, being shamed for mistakes can make you overthink and try to “figure everything out” to avoid them.
And when you're trying to understand people deeply, it can turn into a loop instead of closure.
With awareness and practice, you can learn to close those loops instead of getting stuck in them. It's hard at first but it gets easier with practice
2026-04-16 06:40:15
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Arabella | Spiritual Coach :
Social rules aren’t hard and fast, and people are individual with their own motivations too, you can never 100% know why people do things (sometimes they don’t even know) so there’s no need to think about it
2026-05-30 21:01:05
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Reed Frey :
I’ve found a lot of help using AI because it doesn’t get tired of my hyper focus on things and it helps me close those loops.
2026-04-07 05:17:06
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Brrrrridget💮 :
Brilllliant 💘
2026-04-05 17:33:12
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user6785468996 :
this is the WORST i’ve literally ruminated on the same situations without closure for years lmfao
2026-04-05 16:54:30
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Sana :
Yesss
2026-04-05 22:34:48
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