@cypher.j: I've been working on this take for awhile!! It'll probably lag when first uploaded so just hit download! At some point you realize that even your "best self" is something you're still carrying. #performative #masculinity #manhood
I like to think that there are young boys in your audience who are actually listening and building a much easier path for themselves than what we had. Your content is real help, man.
2026-04-09 17:42:53
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Tyler Wieland :
“Justin nooo” “justin stoppp” JUSTIN. THANK YOU.
2026-04-06 10:36:24
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🌝 :
sir why is it that i sometimes have to skip your videos because i am just not ready in that moment to take another hit. you are the only person that can hurt my feelings. pls sir 🥲
2026-04-05 23:01:56
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TheVibe :
why you keep doing this to me man…
2026-04-05 22:52:55
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John Sol :
how do you stop performing? I feel like im somewhere in between but it feels awkward cause now I dont know how to move sometimes
2026-04-16 06:37:41
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Midnight :
When u think you’re aware and someone comes and teaches you more about yourself. Thank you Justin
2026-04-13 08:50:32
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× Seven × :
My entire childhood was about being built to perform. That's exactly how Mom would say it. I have to perform. Every step has to be my best foot forward and if it can't be, I have to find a way to make it that way. Every joke, every line, every clean dish, every visit, even my slip ups have to be handled in a way that shows off an unbroken stride. I know I'm on that stage still but I'm not tired yet. I've been tired before but right now? I'm not.
2026-04-06 11:44:23
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shdjdn :
It’s 9am bro
2026-04-07 12:51:14
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Cason :
I feel if I don’t achieve excellence in literally ANYTHING I do. I’m not accomplishing anything, and I’m noticing it with more and more things in life.
2026-05-05 00:30:23
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Henway :
“They have a connection to your selfhood. Not just to your output” mmmmm that lines great
2026-04-05 22:09:07
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ናቲ :
the day i followed you, i really did myself a favor
2026-04-08 17:09:12
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Dez :
Self validation is where it’s at for me. 💯
2026-04-05 21:52:32
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🙄 :
Yeah.. I was scrolling light-hearted and now I definitely need to talk to someone..
2026-04-08 23:41:36
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Afam :
Damn I literally just opened this app to get read like a book
2026-04-21 11:46:16
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Osiris 🇲🇽 :
Little to close to home dawg…
2026-04-05 22:53:38
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.glance_ :
Yuppp, I don’t perform anymore. If you love me for the performance and not for me, you don’t love me.
2026-05-14 13:45:21
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Andrew :
idk if this'll make sense but I feel like I've been holding up a mask for so long idk what was ever supposed to be under it, like I know I'm doing all this but idk how I would ever not, like what does "being in the moment" even mean, how do people just be and say stuff without monitoring every word and how it would be perceived, idk how to turn it off
2026-04-19 01:12:17
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Mac :
You got it bro
2026-04-06 14:24:35
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JourneyWithAshonte :
As a performative empath, I tend to feel everything and nothing at all simultaneously. It’s…an erosive experience.
2026-04-26 14:53:19
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Mellow2hype on Twitch :
Jesus man I just got here and I'm being attacked 😭
2026-04-05 23:03:12
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Heidi :
Can we get the script of this video somewhere? I’m going to have to highlight some parts and think on them some more
2026-05-12 08:29:32
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Toefurr :
I love you man. You make me consider who I really am.
2026-04-13 14:59:23
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