@vyanntismo:

... :

"please stay" would never go out of my mouth hence I learn to accept that people can't stay with you forever so just live with it like it is what it is🫂

Quince :

eldest daughter core 🫤

🪩 :

youngest daughter core bc people always feel obliged to provide for you with all the things you’ve never even asked and showing that they see you as burden for it, then you notice and then you decide to hold everything in and stay quiet avoiding and refusing to believe if any act of kindness from others is genuine.

shang :

never thought you can read my mind 😭😭😭

. :

and even if I asked... it wouldn't feel right. I always end up managing it by myself

A :

Then when someone actually helped you, you feel this intense urge to give back more than what they did for you because you feel like it’s a favor you require yourself to return

ashley :

I’ve always struggles to ask for help because I’ve always felt like a burden and believe I need to figure everything out on my own.

Akii :

Cuz what's the point if I had to ask for it??

m :

adrshaq :

the thought of being too much scares the hell out of me

ren🍒 :

it's really hard to ask for something that you want to be done genuinely without asking for it

Susana Santos :

ok, I'm crying because it describes me so perfectly unfortunately... 😢

andiniii :

tapi kalau gue tiba tiba ngajak keluar tanpa plan berarti lagi burnout HAHAHAHA

za :

WORD FOR WORD

npc.mp4 :

middle child here :"(

jujur kureng sih :

tp penyakit gw silent treatment

Daynevlog :

@allrree: "terkadang kita membuka komentar karena kita tidak tahu artinya."

sushi cibaduyut 🍉 :

tapi sekali dipancing langsung overshaeing☹️

ashf :

but like.. i am a burden..?

️m :

I never asked for help, perhaps because I feared it would be seen as a weakness, or maybe because I haven't yet found someone I felt safe enough to rely on.

Hani :

The "I just don't know how to ask without feeling like a burden" just hits so hard.

rsfflp :

and I can't afford to show them my vulnerable side because they always see me as a outgoing person—no problems and full of happiness.

xoxoxee :

i am working on it, but it’s so hard

. :

Whyyyy we be like this