@_louxren_: If you’re going to decenter men, well then it’s time you address where it started my love. We’ve all been engrained to structure our lives, worth, value, dreams, etc. around some man just for the sake of its approval. Taking ownership over your life and finding who the real God/Goddess is, is what’s going to wake you up. Realizing the power you have over yourself is what will help in not allowing others to handle you incorrectly. This only happens with your acceptance. Being male centered, a pick-me, and yall saying men love they homeboys more than they girl…it’s all coming from the same place boo 😭. • • • #decentermen #deconstruction #healing #consciousliving #philosophy