@kylecapilitan: Hurt people hurt people. But healed people? They pause and ask, “What am I projecting?” Because not every reaction is truth. Sometimes it’s an old wound wearing today’s face. Sometimes the anger is really abandonment. Sometimes the control is really fear. Sometimes the coldness is really pain that never got language. And if we’re being honest… not everyone who hurt us was evil. Some people were just deeply unhealed and bleeding on people who didn’t cut them. But here’s the harder truth too: we also become dangerous when we refuse to look at our own pain. So before blaming, before shutting down, before pushing people away… ask yourself: What am I protecting? What am I assuming? What part of me is still hurting? And what am I projecting onto people who are only trying to love me differently? Healing is not just learning how to spot toxic people. It’s learning how to stop becoming toxic from your own unprocessed pain too. What am I projecting? #coachkyle #InnerWork #SelfAwareness #TraumaHealing #ShadowWork

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