@bennylichtenwalner: If your spouse moved out and you’re thinking about trying to get them back, the statistics might shock you most people approach reconciliation like a boardroom negotiation, analyzing what went wrong. Discuss discussing feelings, making promises about change, but here’s what actually happened. Your spouse didn’t leave because of the problems you fought about they left because somewhere along the way you both stopped. Seeing each other‘s individuals worth pursuing the separation was the symptom not the disease couples who successfully reconciled don’t try to resurrect their old relationship