xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Monday 06 April 2026 17:07:02 GMT
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keyclap :
If they are burnt out, it means they didn’t communicate their needs
2026-04-17 02:21:31
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🪷Kaya🍄 :
Right now we’re on a break because he loves me but he just feels suffocated by everything, including me, and I do realize my problems had started to get to the relationship as well, I hope we’re actually able to heal right so then we can come back and be amazing like I know we’re supposed to be
2026-05-24 15:39:33
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🪝orey ⸆⸉ :
I did send a monologue but only because I had found that I am showing OCD tendencies which have affected my relationship. I have started medication and treatment. And that’s how I’m going to show up as better. I’ve been doing some inner work and being curious why I act certain ways and do certain things. Why I’m scared of rejection or being unwanted, etc. I have signed up for counselling from the university, and I’m showing up for myself. Of course I want him back, but I need to do this for me and if we tried again, I will be able to express my needs freely I hope
2026-07-05 10:19:04
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Joel Quick :
Wish I woulda seen this Monday. I did everything you said not to
2026-05-30 01:01:27
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pong :
saw this a day too late and sent a monologue, guess im fked
2026-05-15 09:16:13
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AJ0609 :
We want to repair but she says she owes me and the relationship nothing. Also, she says my way of communicating equals pressure and guilt. I need help to communicate effectively with her
2026-04-07 13:07:40
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Alex French :
What if they say they have been falling apart for months, without communicating so and reassuring they are okay? They did ask me for emotional dependency, which I did put effort and work hard towards, and when things got really tough with my home life I was reassured again that it would be okay for me to lean on them and depend on them. I asked if they were okay, how things are, when I notice silence and blank stares. We’ve been long distance, and I come to find things had been kept secret from me and hidden away because they hadn’t found the right time to tell me about it, things that have betrayed my trust and respect but I also want to work together to fix and mend for a better, healthier relationship
2026-04-30 16:42:31
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Shauna :
My husband would tell me my negative words were getting to him. I just assumed I would never lose him. Until he left.
2026-04-24 03:40:28
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kylee kim 🌊🍓 :
yeah i was burnt out first trying to get an avoidant attachment style to fucking communicate because HE said that shit was important, yet it felt like i had to teach him basic bs for a relationship, yet he asks for space?? like i wasn’t ALSO burnt out with you?? it’s so hard, but i’m still trying to respect the “space,” he wants
2026-05-18 01:19:19
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Jaiden Sandoval917 :
the timing is crazy
2026-04-27 17:25:32
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wookie :
My question is, if the burnt out pursuer agrees to stay as a one last chance kind of resort, even if they are burnt out and no longer have the capacity to be an emotional anchor, does that mean they no longer have any responsibility to the relationship and that repair now falls soley on the other person?
2026-04-06 21:29:29
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MrsH :
As the burnt out person. This is accurate. Listen to this woman!!!
2026-04-08 13:45:46
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Lisa Torres :
wow this is exactly right
2026-06-17 12:37:16
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grady._.1 :
She’s wanting the space and I’m wanting to show my consistency, but I can’t show it because she’s wanting to space from me and if I’m showing consistency if she’s pushing me away even more would that even mean that I was inconsistent in the first place
2026-05-07 18:10:00
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DF :
Lowkey have failed on this
2026-05-16 17:43:22
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Michael Archer :
I needed this. Thank you.
2026-05-12 18:04:34
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Liyah Figueroa :
what if they want a break so they can experience things with others. is it fair to don’t want to be with someone who can’t be committed to their partner anymore? they would love to stay in a relationship but not if they know the outcome is her wanting new experiences with other people
2026-05-13 10:39:47
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Jinhyeok_kkc :
It’s Day 1. Thank you for this
2026-05-04 23:55:36
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Brett Hillson :
So what do you do? Other than give them space
2026-04-07 13:01:18
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Crist :
what if they said that the door is close
2026-06-25 18:33:00
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Super duper extra evil guy :
God I wish I had seen this video a week ago
2026-06-03 20:23:07
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Ben :
Thank you
2026-04-17 21:01:22
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RixhyLifts :
Holy timing
2026-05-04 12:58:43
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username0282748399001019 :
Show this on his fyp pls. Not mine
2026-05-08 03:09:23
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Pearlii :
His FYP not mineeee
2026-05-18 11:28:57
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