@noellesimpson_: We asked men what they think is wrong with dating right now & here is what they said! #dating #moderndatingissues #singlelife

Ryann :

3-4 dates is now too long?! That’s honestly insane

🎀 𝕭 🎀 :

i know you did not just “both sides are bad” this issue……. be so fr

Beta DeFlorian :

My expectations aren’t unrealistic or absurd if I myself am already meeting them ✨

bandit-one :

daemoniumlupus :

3-4 dates thing is wild to me.

Pavvypavpav :

Bird hands watch out!.

crashedoutbimbo 🇬🇷 :

3-4 dates is too long? Oh they would hate me 😅

Saitama Slams :

All of those are super valid besides the number of dates one.

lindsey :

Thank you for reminding me why I’m done dating!

sierrasteinwertt :

3 as in 1,2,3???

hispanic :

Why i gave up 😂

ava :

The pause after you said the 2nd expectation is too real

nicolem1818 :

I don’t expect anything I can’t provide myself so what now

bekah🦋 :

3-4 dates is too LONG?!?

Yao :

I think both sides are just unwilling to allow things to grow organically over 3-5 dates. After 1-2, someone usually just ghosts or jumps ship.

Ashley :

3-4 dates… what happened to waiting until things were official before doing anything 😅

Kass | 📚✨🤸🏻‍♀️ :

It seems expectations from both sides are unrealistic and unfortunately social media has shaped those expectations. I think people need to start dating with intention and honesty. Both sides and call like it is, people aren’t afraid to comment their opinions on posts or random surveys but to the people they are actually trying to date or talk to it’s like non existent or done very rudely.

Clay :

It’s hilarious that the comments are only talking about the 3-4 dates thing, when there were several other things mentioned. 3-4 dates is minimal. But what about the other issues.

Sophie :

A lot of these are so valid and so real

Rex516 :

I got lucky last week, the waitress at chilis thought I was cute and we’ve gone on a few dates now. 🤷‍♂️here’s hoping

Katy :

It’s dating apps

Casey Carrington :

i blame capitalism, the housing crisis

Katiiehorn :

Sarah :

I’m so happy that I’m gay

Tay :

I’m going to be single forever