@theparentalpsychologist: No one talks about these but I will. These are the signs you are a “bad” parent: – You lose your patience sometimes. – You feel overwhelmed by the noise, the needs, the constant demands. – You’ve raised your voice and wished you hadn’t. – You question if you’re doing enough (or doing it right). – You need breaks from your own children. – You worry about the impact you’re having on them. If this stung a bit… pause here for a second. Because none of these are signs of a bad parent. They’re signs of a human nervous system under pressure. And the fact that you care enough to feel uncomfortable reading this? That tells a very different story about you. 💛 You’re not failing. You’re responding to a lot. (Also… this caption is part of a little experiment. There’s an almost identical reel with very different wording. I’m curious which one the algorithm pushes, and how it makes you feel in the process. Please comment on this if you made it this far.) #nervoussystemparenting #parenting #gentleparenting #childpsychology #parentingtips
i didn't know i have adhs since my third kid was diagnosed. during i read this i was thinking i'm a very Bad patent, because i felt overwhelmed most of the time my Kids were little. the noise, the mess and all the other stuff. the i Reader it to the end..i could be better, i've yelled to much. 3 Kids with adhs and me. today they are happy. one is happylie markiert, one is studying and the last is allerdings in school (14) but now i'm calmer. i've learned more about Our condition
2026-04-07 09:41:08
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nads0629 :
I thought I was on the wrong side of Tik Tok for a moment
2026-04-07 13:36:39
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Nidine waugh :
Mum guilt all the time 🥺
2026-04-07 15:01:53
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Jess Jamie :
I’ve taken groups and programs for parenting and to help with my sons difficulties and what you are naming does not make us bad parents because guess what we are humans too first time parents first time living. If you do them constantly then ye but you wrote sometimes and that’s just a big no
2026-04-08 17:56:23
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becca :
I struggle with many of the things listed! it's very difficult not to blame myself! I just keep trying to be better than the day before...
2026-04-07 14:58:11
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indrucis :
Not only do I feel this way, but people around me also tell me that I'm a bad parent.
2026-04-07 08:41:26
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Miracle Mama|Feminine Wellness :
I was literally just praying about this🥹
2026-04-07 01:20:56
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TheRealChoppit :
this really stings
2026-04-06 18:36:59
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Alexi Flores :
Me just last night 😔 I wish I can turn back time and respond to my baby differently.
2026-04-07 03:55:38
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Experiences and Life :
This is exactly how I feel
2026-04-06 19:57:05
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Daners.bro :
Bs
2026-04-09 05:30:21
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Veeamakh :
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I want to change so bad
2026-04-07 13:59:16
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alf :
yes all .but mostly angry on me because i cant do bwtter fucking angry itry but .
2026-04-09 08:56:43
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Vicki Shipton :
This did resonate!
2026-04-07 11:30:07
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TriggerJB :
Thank you.
2026-04-07 18:46:08
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Amber Rheeder :
this broke me.
2026-04-09 16:08:08
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Aliya :
Love this!!!!
2026-04-09 09:40:00
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Kaley Clicks :
Mom guilt is the worst.
2026-04-09 10:05:38
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sabrinairibar :
Fear
2026-04-07 18:17:33
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Breton’s Mom 🐦⬛🇨🇦 :
Tricky tricky! 😅😁
2026-06-12 21:53:56
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Samir azemi :
Oh this is so me
2026-04-10 03:18:23
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Kara :
I'm a single mother to 2 teen daughters. My struggles weren't with my girls but with myself. Financially, doing it all alone, wondering if they will see me struggle and think this is "normal" and they will have the same lives. That I've failed them for not having a father figure in their lives. My mental health has never been great, but in the last 4 years it's been the worst. I worry how I'll survive honestly once they leave my house. Being their mom is the only life I have and only 1 I want. Maybe I do too much. But I'm stressed out quite a bit. Doing it ALL.
2026-04-09 04:27:53
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Gigi :
Mom guilt
2026-04-09 02:28:33
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Alison OBrien :
EVERY DAY
2026-04-08 23:49:15
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Hany Pšenková :
me every other day
2026-04-07 04:46:34
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