Victoria Coffer
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user3456789 :
There are also SO so so so so many people that are dealing with fertility struggles, miscarriages, stillbirths, infertility, IVF, etc etc etc. People should not be making comments about others not having children because you never know what someone is going through.
2026-04-06 20:03:58
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Caroline :
Couldn’t agree. Full-time working mom here, and it’s definitely challenging, but I get up at 4am every morning to get my workout in. I’m raising daughters, and I want them to know I believe they are worth caring for m. My life didn’t stop once I had kids; it evolved.
2026-04-09 12:38:16
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SJ :
I actually don't think it's any more difficult after having kids because you just get your kids involved in those activities with you so that way they grow up to be disciplined, healthy, functioning adults.
2026-04-06 18:29:33
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maggieslifeedit :
I’m a mom of two teenagers and I really enjoy your content. I’ve watched your videos and on many occasions thought, “Wow! She’s really setting herself up with habits and discipline that will be so helpful if she chooses to have kids.” You’re putting yourself in a fantastic place! I am completely struggling with my own discipline but am also self-aware enough to know that any comment that sounds like what other moms have been leaving, would only be a reflection of how I’m feeling about myself. You’re crushing it and I’m 43 and feel inspired by you!
2026-04-06 18:39:51
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siren ✨ :
As a sahm with no help I literally do at home Pilates and daily walks with my toddler and will occasionally do mommy and me exercise classes. It’s not easy but it’s 100% doable!
2026-04-06 19:30:11
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𝓛𝓮𝓵 :
they make me not want to have kids so I probably won't tbh
2026-04-12 13:14:48
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Regina 🦢 :
My kids have never stopped me from taking care of myself and they too have learned to take good care of themselves.
2026-04-06 18:59:03
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Christina :
Mom of two - once you have them on a sleep routine you can jump right back into a strict disciplined life. I work full time and thrive with a strict schedule.
2026-04-06 19:50:00
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Holistic with Kristen :
Here to say I’m more locked in now that I am a mom. A single mom with a demanding full time job and consulting gigs, at that. I do more, am more disciplined and my life is exponentially better now than before I was a mom. I choose what I want my life to be 🙌🏼
2026-04-10 20:20:28
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Meagan.Alice :
👏👏👏 Pregnant woman here and these comments drive me insane.
2026-04-07 15:45:57
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Elizabeth Keeter :
mom of two under two, you CAN make time and prioritize yourself even with kids. also! it shows them that taking care of yourself is important!!
2026-04-07 16:44:17
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Ellie in the 4D :
LOL commenting that is optional!!!
2026-04-06 20:06:40
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Sehr.Khan :
Im a mom and i do alot of the things you say ❤️
2026-05-28 10:41:00
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Lindsey :
I think I commented on your last post about this. I’m a mom and I think those comments come from a place of insecurity and jealousy.
2026-04-08 11:53:32
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Laura McDonald909 :
They are just jealous!!! ❤️
2026-04-07 07:30:40
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nathalie salero :
Yessss! 1000% queen. I have a two yr old/ work full time- but wake up at 4am to go to Pilates, meal prep, skin care etc! It’s not easy but definitely doable if motivated and disciplined!
2026-04-07 02:08:16
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mary 🧚🏻 :
Heavy on the projection 👏🏻 also can you link the pullover? 😉
2026-04-06 18:44:59
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Noshaba 🧸 :
I actually try to take care of myself more as a mom because my kids deserve the best version of their mother!
2026-04-06 20:24:53
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Dala :
Mom of 2 teens here and I truly don’t understand… I got WAYYYY healthier after having my kids. They personally gave me a reason to do it for myself. ❤️
2026-04-06 18:51:11
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ariellethalia :
Absolutelyyyy I didn’t do any self care before kids, now I have 2 and I’m doing it all
2026-04-06 19:19:04
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Diane McMartin :
I was in my late 30s when I had my daughter, so I had a nice long time as an independent adult without kids, and you can definitely still find time for yourself. I actually enjoy the time I have for me more now because I have a more structured schedule. having kids also means you can't dilly dally if you want to get shit done, which for me has been a good thing because I have a tendency to procrastinate. It's made my life better in a million ways, so if you want to have kids, don't let people scare you and make you think your life is over and you'll never have time for yourself again. Sure, the first couple months are intense, but if you have an equal partner, you'll start to get your time back pretty fast.
2026-04-10 22:20:01
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Katie :
Also… it’s totally fine if you want to prioritize your self care/mental health/sleep/travel and not want kids!
2026-04-11 20:46:43
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Tati :
Mom of 2 and work full time. Still workout 3-4 times a week, cook almost all my food cause I have a gluten allergy. It takes time to recover post partum but it is possible to live healthy and have self care.
2026-04-21 12:28:00
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La petite Lu :
My mom is my biggest inspo, I have 3 siblings, she was a marathon runner (now she is into yoga) she would get up to run at 5 am, come back to take us to school, get ready for her work and had food ready for us + after school activities! We would still have time to go to the movies some nights😂 I don’t even know how! most likely cuz there was no social media
2026-04-09 14:47:49
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Shorty1976 :
49 yr old full time, married, working mom of 2 kids (ages 12 & 15) and I’m doing it! I work out ever am before work on the Peloton app in my basement and take care of myself. I am in better shape now that I was when I got married at age 25. It is all about prioritization and figuring out what is worth giving up (skipping happy hr work friends or staying up late to scroll or binge watch a series). It is not always easy, but worth it!
2026-04-06 19:03:04
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