@its.chelsea.alberti: Is this just a me thing? #grief #griefandloss #questionoftheday

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britta.ae
britta :
I just say thank you and continue my conversation
2026-04-07 01:47:26
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thisaintit20250
This ain’t it :
“I appreciate that”
2026-04-07 02:31:12
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pawllyjean
PawllyJean :
"I'm sorry for your loss" "oh that's ok they found the urn in the storage unit."
2026-04-12 03:23:45
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itskristen1stbabe
itskristen1stbabe :
I say “I appreciate that, thank you”
2026-04-07 14:27:12
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user03700086311
User2837338383 :
Thank you. Why this a huge deal?
2026-04-07 14:54:58
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silencedbyyounever
Truthfullyspeaking :
This is the anger stage of grief
2026-04-07 03:27:33
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taytaytay369
Tay :
Why are you uncomfortable receiving from another person?
2026-04-07 03:24:35
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bigheftyhooker42069
Sarah :
thank you. don't say "it's ok" or "it's not your fault" thats weird.
2026-04-07 11:16:46
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theloveshinelife
Leanna 🫶🏻 :
You say "thank you". it acknowledges them recognizing your grief without dismissing it. "it's fine" is dismissive to your grief and their sympathy for you. Same goes for when someone says "I'm sorry" in general. I taught my kids to simply say "thank you" because it's not, in facts "fine" that they hurt you or you are hurting. ❤️‍🩹
2026-04-07 14:08:08
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aanxie_teaa
aanxie_teaa :
I always say “why? Did you do it?” 😂 Always gets a laugh.
2026-04-07 18:07:25
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user1162622626272
kell :
Thank you and move on
2026-04-07 01:57:00
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robsherwood617
robsherwood617 :
thank you…move on
2026-04-07 02:43:55
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oriahellen
ᵒʰ :
I say "that's life" unless I've had too much caffeine, then I start singing The Cirlce of Life from The Lion King, but that's me...
2026-04-07 14:26:36
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stevesilver137
stevesilver137 :
Tony Soprano: “whadaya gonna do?”
2026-04-07 22:50:07
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400degreeshot
face tiger :
nothing is really appropriate. I think both parties aren't sure about what to say.
2026-04-07 04:35:12
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bandito0720
Bandito10 :
Say thank you and move on. Saying “we need to make it a thing” makes it a thing and more awkward for everyone.
2026-04-07 05:03:22
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peggyesche
Peggy Esche :
I usually just say thanks and move on.
2026-04-08 20:24:44
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77angels
77angels :
“Thank you,” and continued. They are being polite and thoughtful. No BIG deal.
2026-04-08 02:16:07
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bridgem3
Matt :
"yeah it it sucked"
2026-04-07 12:15:51
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chit79982
Chit :
Most of the time I say some form of "thank you" or " It's okay, but I appreciate you saying that". If there are more questions I answer with no problem, I think of it as a way to keep their memory alive. The tricky part for me personally has always been how to answer the, " how many siblings do you have" question. It stumps me everytime.
2026-04-07 01:49:36
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user8786543521487
Blooming in Place :
thank you
2026-05-21 15:02:51
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theresatammone
theresatammone :
Just say, thank you
2026-05-21 01:28:36
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mojolove15
mojolove15 :
You may think it’s weird to say it but it’s even weirder not to say it. It’s the right thing to say if someone just glosses over your loss they sound callous. I say this as a widow who went to the dmv to change the title on my husbands car and was met with “death certificate.” I remember that 10
2026-04-27 01:50:44
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specialk101978
Boats :
Thank you 🤷‍♂️👍
2026-04-09 09:07:06
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michelletg67
Michelle :
You say thank you
2026-04-09 02:16:48
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