Lmao she’s not wrong. You can be close with the entire group but there’s always a closer duo.
2026-04-07 05:58:55
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procrastinapper :
as an autistic girly, I LOVE this friend who explains these things to me
2026-04-07 07:14:58
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leean :
most groups are formed by a duo introducing their other friends
2026-04-07 20:51:51
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petty_lifecoach :
I super don't want a friend group like this
2026-04-07 12:23:47
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gabri :
i cant be the only one who thinks this sounds insane
2026-04-07 13:40:12
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Ben :
To those saying “may this friend group never find me” I hate to tell you this but this is basic group dynamics. If you have a friend group this dynamic already exists, and if you think it doesn’t then you are the POV friend in this video
2026-04-07 22:48:57
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Ali boo :
I mean, yes there is a “hierarchy” in relationships because it’s just unrealistic to expect all friendships are the same kind of close. But at the same time being offended because another close friend initiated plans to celebrate your best friend seems insecure.
2026-04-07 13:17:39
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EmilAthari :
"the group chat WITH Melissa" is a lore heavy detail!! Is it implied these two are part of a chat entirely without Melissa or did this friend accidentely reveal there is another one without both POV perspective and Melissa??
2026-04-07 10:56:13
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Miljana | Beauty & Hair UGC :
And that's why I don't do friend groups.
2026-04-07 11:27:06
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Gigi :
“Next time you have a thought like that just come to me first.” 😂 Tbh she isn’t wrong tho.
2026-04-07 10:56:54
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Biff :
what she needs to do is reach out to melissa and say how excited she is and ask if there's anything she can do to help, if she wants to be involved.
2026-04-07 15:16:11
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happyhealthyher :
A hierarchy is the easiest way for me to abandon someone. It’s weird to be around people who don’t really like you that much
2026-04-07 17:30:57
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Exactly_Jacly :
As an autistic woman, is it weird that I think I DO intuitively understand these social dynamics? I can see who is closer to who and which person has the right to expect preferential treatment, etc. I don’t really struggle with the social side THAT much. But I know autism is multi-faceted and not everyone has every characteristic
2026-04-07 21:20:57
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grxinthewrld :
that’s her ball that’s HERRRR ball
2026-04-08 01:02:00
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ZHIFN :
It sounds strange but this is COMPLETELY normal. It happens in every friend group, just observe and you’ll see. It’s not bad either, it’s just how we socialize
2026-04-08 16:25:35
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em :
Oh to have a friend that wants to plan your birthday let alone MULTIPLE friends
2026-04-07 03:57:26
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Isla🤍🪩💫 :
This is sounds exhausting
2026-04-08 20:32:26
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lyn :
Friend groups are exhausting
2026-04-07 13:29:37
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The Tiny Recycler :
We need this friend, tho.
2026-04-07 03:59:40
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Ashpatronus :
And stuff like that is how you never grow closer in friendships. I used to think hierarchies when I was younger but after that got dismantled in my brain it’s been amazing
2026-04-07 05:44:04
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JJR :
You can ask Melissa, “hey girl hey what are we doing for Lucy’s 30th?”
2026-04-07 16:30:51
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૮꒰ྀི˶• ༝ •˶ ྀི꒱ა :
I’d rather be alone than have a friend group like this😭
2026-04-07 15:34:16
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Bandibear :
May this kind of "friendship" never find me I'd rather anyone plan my birthday regardless of a hierarchical system of sad
2026-04-07 06:51:54
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Ify&Kosy :
Unspoken rules always need to be followed or it ruins the vibe
2026-04-07 04:43:14
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