So YOU went no contact and now YOU decided to reach out. She grieved your loss from her life and moved on. Did you expect her to just be like frozen in time, ready and waiting for you to waltz back into her life? She is telling you that her pain was so significant, that she doesn’t want you to come back and expect her to be different and when she isn’t, you again walk away and she has to go through grieving again. Before it goes further, she is setting the boundaries to let you back in. I see absolutely nothing wrong with her response. Just because she’s not immediately throwing her arms wide doesn’t mean she isn’t willing to build the bridge, but that she’s not going to let you dictate that process.
2026-04-08 14:07:29
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lace_face2 :
Honestly- you feel exhausting.
2026-04-09 04:12:21
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Nickilicious :
mom sounds rational
2026-06-27 08:52:25
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PhillyG :
“Im not going to read her words verbatim” = I am going to give you my interpretation and only mine.
2026-04-08 11:05:21
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Carlyne Fleming :
Ma’am, with all due respect, you are the one who is not ready. Leave her alone.
2026-04-08 11:37:13
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U_nique :
Basically Mom says, the door is open but I am still the same person that you walked away from. You must accept me as I am. I am done with the drama and I will not be walking around on eggshells. Take it or leave it.
2026-04-08 20:46:02
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Boutique Cookies By Ash NM :
Oh boy. I cannot believe I’m siding with mom on this one🫣😳
2026-04-09 12:55:08
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Candy :
Just add us all to the no contact list please
2026-04-13 05:36:51
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MsMaryKelly :
You want to be right more than you want a resolution. You're not ready.
2026-04-09 00:36:08
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Hollusia :
Probably the most peaceful 4 years of her life
2026-04-09 15:44:28
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Veronica :
Omg, leave her alone. You reach out. She responds and you pick apart her response and immediately start ranting about how wrong she is. Leave her alone.
2026-04-09 14:20:09
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Theodore Lasso :
I’m officially going no contact from this creator.
2026-04-09 02:31:03
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Chaos|TTS💐🦄 :
You get to go no contact. You do not get to dictate how people react to that no contact.
2026-04-14 00:50:22
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famatta in real life :
Girl leave that lady alone.
2026-04-09 10:53:45
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vna785 :
She respected your decision now respect hers..
2026-04-08 12:13:16
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Freed From Evil :
I cut my mom out of my life for 10 yrs. and then later when my daughter grew up she cut me out of her life, we are on 5 yrs now. It's the most
2026-06-25 15:08:05
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Freed From Evil :
Just accept it's not going to be the relationship u wanted but try to at least check up on her & remember birthdays & mother's day. Make no demands.
2026-06-25 15:12:37
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Heather Tkach :
That ain’t it cheif
2026-06-25 23:26:27
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𝓠𝓾𝓮𝓮𝓷🐝 :
It’s interesting to say it’s not ethical to share your mom’s response, but still bring the situation to the internet. That kind of creates a one-sided story, especially when the other person’s voice is missing. The kind of loss she experienced is real.
2026-04-08 20:52:12
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user6812972020916 :
So you get to make all the rules???
2026-04-08 16:19:09
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BackAgainTikTok :
Yeah... we ALL side with your mom
2026-04-09 15:17:11
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Summergirl25 :
I think reading your email verbatim but you summarizing hers is very telling. Ma’am that’s your interpretation so I don’t think anyone can answer your question.
2026-04-08 10:45:34
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🌑AnnJulia :
Valid. You walked away. She moved on. Why should you control the situation?
2026-04-08 01:58:03
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Ana :
Mom sounds like the rational one
2026-04-08 12:58:34
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