FINALLY. A refreshing pov! Thank you, sincerely an Italy destination bride. BTW we are giving our guests 2 years to figure their sh*t out or not…I truly don’t care if whoever can’t come
2026-04-08 21:34:20
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ekd :
Like yeah I’d rather spend $1.2k go to Cabo San Lucas instead of $600-$800 to go to Milwaukee
2026-04-08 01:03:56
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HR :
“You are invited, not summoned”. Exactly. It is my personal goal to get invited to a wedding in Europe somewhere. In case anyone needs seat fillers. 😄
2026-04-08 14:02:01
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andrea rocío :
my unpopular opinion is that on your birthday and your wedding you get to be as selfish as you want it’s YOUR day
2026-04-09 14:37:46
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geojw :
I spent $1500 to go to a wedding in Mississippi once (where I grew up). I’m spending basically the same amount to go to a wedding in Italy this summer. Yeah I’d prefer Italy
2026-04-08 16:31:14
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alex :
like it’s not jury duty 😭
2026-04-10 04:48:07
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ParmeSean :
It legit sounds like “omg I HAVE to go Italy someone feel bad for me” like yea u don’t have to do it lol
2026-04-08 01:13:08
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Dollfa$e :
If I get invited anywhere out of the country I’m going that’s number one.
2026-04-08 22:27:55
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Sew over everything :
It’s because so many people have the “if they don’t want to spend time and money to come to your wedding they just don’t care about you” mentality.
2026-04-08 19:14:34
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Christina🌌🌟 :
Noooo because, its embarrassing reading the comments. One asked “if they gonna have a destination i think flight and hotels should be paid for.” LIKE TF?
2026-04-09 05:38:26
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Jayme C Floyd :
“Invited not summoned”
2026-04-08 02:58:22
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Mindy :
Listen, I have to do destination wedding. The amount of guests my mother would invite would fill the football stadium. Mind you I don’t know those ppl.
2026-04-08 03:34:26
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summercyana :
“It’s selfish” “it’s not fair” like ITS NOT YOUR WEDDING???
2026-04-09 13:31:15
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SamIAm :
Mine isn’t even destination…it’s a 30 minute drive for everyone and the complaints I’ve gotten 😭
2026-06-02 21:20:00
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lolo :
I pack right away .. this is a bonus
2026-05-05 14:41:18
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Veronica :
had my wedding in New Orleans with only a 3 months notice We thought only 20 people would show up but 50 RSVPd!!!! We had a great time and for those who weren't there too bad so sad
2026-04-10 03:11:06
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Natalieplopez87 :
If you can't go don't go
2026-06-02 16:16:38
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ayybayybayy3 :
60 of 70 people invited to my destination wedding came. Some people even got passports for the first time just to come 🤷♀️it was an amazing time
2026-04-09 20:26:40
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Alayna Mellott :
13 days in Iceland ~13k for 25 people. Worth the destination 🖤
2026-04-13 18:52:51
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ALLISON ✨ :
I have a HUGE family, so I decided to have my dream wedding in the south of France. We had a whole ass chateau for the entire weekend for $40K. All 50 of our guests stayed at the chateau with us for the weekend and we hosted a welcome dinner, the wedding, and day after brunch there. All of our guests were so happy to come and made their own Eurotrip around our wedding. If they want to be there, they will 💕
2026-04-08 18:57:08
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KIERA :
Wedding invite is not a court summons
2026-04-08 20:20:31
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prefr0ntalcortex :
Mostly agreed, with one additional caveat: you don’t get to say a WORD of complaint about people not coming if you do this. You don’t get to claim the people who didn’t/couldn’t come don’t care about you or your wedding. Put simply, you don’t get to use your expensive destination wedding as a litmus test for the people who care about you. If you do, that says FAR more about you than them.
2026-04-10 14:25:06
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chaoswithacherryontop :
My husband was invited solo to a destination wedding this month in Portugal. Unfortunately, we didn’t have the extra disposable income to cover it (we just bought a house) so he had to regretfully decline and his friend has not spoken to him since. So if you’re going to have a destination wedding, don’t take offense when people can’t go either.
2026-04-09 14:49:04
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