Distance so they can go with other people in the meantime
2026-04-08 18:54:15
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thighoverbreast :
avoid the avoidant
2026-04-08 15:42:51
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Im Just Donny :
Well after 5 years I can’t take anymore
2026-04-08 11:03:54
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NEATAAAAA🖤🖤 :
this sounds like too much and not worth it
2026-04-08 12:35:56
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Haile | Attachment Coach :
Their distance is actually protection, not rejection. When we stop the spiral and respond with that grounded, calm energy, it creates the safety they actually need to lower those walls. Consistency will always matter more than intensity. The fact that you’re aware of this evolution is huge! 🤍
2026-04-16 03:09:34
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cpromero1418 :
😂😂😂😂😂😂 wish them the best and move on know your worth
2026-04-08 11:34:15
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Linda🤍 :
Bro I don’t have time for this LMAO
2026-04-08 19:49:13
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Greg :
This is exactly what is happening between my partner and I. It requires a special kind of patience and maturity to truly encourage a gradual and slow shift in the avoidant. Only someone that is secure in themselves, will have that patience without spiralling and chasing.
2026-04-09 01:21:52
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user9021763989859 :
7 years in. Run away. It’s not worth it.
2026-05-13 12:33:58
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Bee bee :
so, we changed 100% for them but he did nothing?
2026-04-08 12:54:58
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Finally1986 :
distance is rejection they got someone else
2026-04-08 11:41:27
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Chyna.Nicole :
This is toxic not healthy for the other person
2026-04-10 23:46:36
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Kreyy Kreyy :
this happened to me but i eventually left. he healed my anxious side but he remained avoidant, even if there were adjustments and changes he made for me.
2026-04-08 14:09:02
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jaynneki :
they are good ppl just messed up but I dont have the patience
2026-05-07 21:06:16
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Jes :
idgaf what it is. stay here or stay gone. those games are too much. waste your own time. bye
2026-04-08 14:06:12
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Foxxii 🦊 :
It’s their responsibility to heal their wounds to not treat people so badly
2026-04-08 15:45:10
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cocobrown :
This is too much 1 Corinthians 14:33 God is not the author of confusion but of peace. So I'll take my peace and move along I don't need that stress
2026-04-10 02:46:01
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Doraemon💙 :
they only love chase they chase the one that refused to lose themselves
cause they don't wanna lose themselves either and I think it's the most healthy relationship
2026-04-09 23:31:15
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PayBac iBoro :
Yes! Feed my delusions 😂😂😂😭😭😭
2026-04-08 16:37:44
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Kayla ۶ৎ :
who the hell wants to go through this
2026-04-11 15:48:28
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wonderweis1 :
just leave them alone. they prioritise themselves & proud of being independant. they don't need you and you are not prioritise. wasting your time, energy & emotion. stop being detective by guessing game. if he never confess, just STOP & LEAVE!
2026-04-08 18:56:19
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salob :
It’s worth it
2026-04-15 20:33:20
5
Lilies :
I’m too old for this. I’ll be 80 b4 he even hold my hand
2026-04-09 19:11:17
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Ngọc Đang ở🇹🇼 :
so I'm the one to do the hard work.. hmmm doesn't sit right
2026-05-09 10:26:00
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la mexicanita :
It’s so hard 🥹 sometimes I think I can’t, why do we always have to wait. I personally think that true love doesn’t have to be like that!
2026-04-09 01:47:29
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