Lucy - infant sleep specialist
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Wednesday 08 April 2026 14:56:12 GMT
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Megan :
swore up and down to the hv and in my NCT class I wouldn't bed share. they gave me the info to do it safely anyway. which turns out to be excellent as my child refused to sleep unless she was touching me! she still sleeps in my bed at 4
2026-04-08 18:46:54
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hollymarie181 :
My son sleeps in my bed too otherwise he wouldn’t sleep at all. Some nights he even only sleeps when he‘s on me 😩 In theory I know how to bed share safely but he just won’t sleep in that setting. He needs to be super close to me and never sleeps on his back only on the side 😭 I‘m really stressed out about this situation
2026-04-08 19:18:22
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SuzyK23 :
watching this with my 18w bed sharing - best thing I ever did and we both sleep amazing since the start ❤️
2026-04-08 15:44:11
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Blaize Rowlands :
We’ve co slept for 6 months I’m a Breast feeder some people will judge me but we’re doing it safely
2026-05-10 22:17:47
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Sandy :
ive come slept/sleep with all 4 of mine ....the years are so fast and I like as much sleep as possible...can confirm the teens are perfectly adapted to sleeping in their own beds 😂 its not forever x
2026-04-08 20:41:20
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Gemma Rossall :
i try not to make myself feel bad about bed sharing on occasion - sometimes it’s necessary
2026-04-09 09:37:02
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Kay :
I was adamant that I would never co-sleep. I did it for the first time when my son was 4 weeks old. We’ve done it on and off since then. It was the only way to get any sleep through the 4 month regression. Now that he’s 6 months, we do it less and less, bed sharing is how my baby learned to fall back to sleep without feeding or rocking. It saved my sanity.
2026-04-08 20:14:58
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Jacqueline :
Absofuckenlootley!!
2026-04-08 22:23:41
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Ellie 🖤 IG: wendyclxxr_ :
I was adamant I wouldn't bedshare now I'm 3 weeks pp and my son has ended up in bed with me in the early morning because it's the only way I can rest as well. Safe sleep 7 should be encouraged.
2026-05-01 15:48:57
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karlashevlin :
My little one sleeps on my chest in the morning for an hour. Blankets folded down, laying in the middle of the bed, propped up with pillows and my elbow on the bed. It’s the best hour sleep I get and I’m so aware she’s there.
2026-04-10 20:37:11
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karenoconnell905 :
Love this!! I feel like it’s hard to find advice on safe cosleeping when everything is don’t do it 🙈
2026-04-08 19:24:57
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Rachel :
currently watching this in bed with my 5 month old beside me. he's been sleeping full time in my bed last couple weeks but has ended up in my bed every night since birthday as he just wants to be close to me and that's ok with me.
2026-04-09 00:11:39
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Nikk123 :
I bedshare with my 16 week old. He starts out most nights in his bedside and the first time he wakes, he sleeps in the bed with me. Some nights we sleep face to face and others I move away and sleep “alone” - we have a 210x210cm bed. He has his own duvet (never above his waist) and I never wear mine higher than my waist either, I wear a tight longsleeve instead. I also breastfeed during the night, sleep in C shape and I am a light sleeper. This way he never fully wakes, but breastfeeds semi sleeping. Works great for both of us.
2026-04-08 20:22:17
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Emma 🦋 Mom to Dahlia 🌺 :
i wish my baby wanted to bedshare.. but its just fun and games in our bed. she sleeps way better in her own.. i want the cuddles 😭
2026-04-08 22:22:20
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Shannnnnn🌙 :
I swore blind I wouldn’t bed share.. I’ve since done it many a time with my twins! Sometimes it’s the only way they’ll fall asleep and then I’ll just transfer them into their next to me. Parenting can be hard, I’m not about to make it even harder for myself by listening to my babies screaming because they’re overtired! 😅😅
2026-04-08 21:16:41
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Clare Simmonds483 :
I’m almost certain that ALL parents cosleep at some point (either intentionally or accidentally). We’ve all been there, exhausted doing the night feeds and feeling the nodding off. I thankfully made the decision to embrace bed sharing with my first very early on - best decision I made! Had my second almost 2 weeks ago and cosleep with them both (using a next to me for my newborn) and it’s incredible!
2026-06-16 08:26:36
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Sabrina 48 :
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 agreed
2026-04-08 16:51:51
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EJB 🖤 :
👏 👏 absolutely!!
2026-04-08 18:36:17
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Charlotte :
Honestly she sleeps so well in her next to me from midnight - 2ish, then I dreamfeed her and transfer her again and she sleeps until 5ish…but will never transfer again 😂 so her 5am feed is a side lying feed and we cosleep, following the SS7, until she’s ready to wake for the day around 7/8. 4 weeks old and started this routine last week when Dad went back to work, so it’s only ever me & her in bed for co sleeping
2026-07-07 10:07:06
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EmmaD🇬🇧 :
my HV said she would report me to social services, even though we had a great set up. Was told breastfeeding a newborn in bed would lead to dxxxx, I had to get up get dressed and feed in a chair 😳 I declined HV with the next baby.
2026-04-08 20:37:59
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hollie🪩 :
tik tok comments are the worst!! the amount of times i’ve cried because strangers on the internet are saying im putting my baby in danger :(
2026-04-08 19:49:32
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Hannah :
You are so right! Used to judge cosleeping so badly because of the narrative surrounding it & swore I’d never do it when pregnant but then had a baby who wouldn’t sleep anywhere but on me. Sent myself insane sitting up with him until I fell asleep breastfeeding one night & woke up 2 hours later (thank god he was fine). Been Co sleeping safely since and LOVE it. Haven’t once felt sleep deprived and cherishing the cuddles x
2026-04-08 19:53:45
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Melissa&Remy - First Time Mum :
I had ALOT of stitches 😂 i was not sitting up in bed to get her out of the bedside crib.. and then sitting up to breastfeed for however long. safe sleep 7 for the win 😂
2026-04-08 22:21:34
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