I stayed w my ex for so long because I couldn’t face the idea of how much it would break him if I ended things and I knew I would have a content/comfortable life staying with him, then I realised it’s more selfish to hold onto someone out of fear rather than letting them go so they can find someone that is 100% on them!! I still have flashbacks of how devastated he was though and it breaks my heart every time lol
2026-04-10 05:49:55
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omo_t :
Feel sick how casual this is to all of you guys
2026-04-10 23:21:49
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Flipsnumber1 :
I’ve been married 26 years to the nice guy. Happily married. But I get what you’re saying about losing the nice guy but knowing it’s not fully complete.
2026-06-16 12:24:58
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Rhi xx :
I left my four year relationship because I just had this gut feeling that I still had more work to do on myself and I felt I couldn’t grow anymore in that relationship. I still care for him very much but it’s MY life and I have to put my personal growth and development first x
2026-04-09 06:29:16
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Kayley :
I’m literally 27, in the middle of ending my 3 year relationship with the NICEST man ever, and I’m strugglinggggg😭 like the GUILT is unmatched! The fear of regret.. like this is awful but in my gut I know it’s right, heart stays go, head stays stop being stupid
2026-04-09 08:16:32
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cece❤️❤️ :
nothing ever feels fully right. Relationships take work but as long as you choose to love and care for each other ever day, that’s all that matters. The “perfect” person for you doesn’t exist as we as humans live for ourselves we have quirks that sometimes rub our partners the wrong
2026-04-10 22:40:06
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lola :
No but I think it’s important to be careful nowadays where everything on social media is deemed as the sole truth. Being in a relationship that makes you feel loved, with a “good” person, is more than many of us can ask for. I think it’s absolutely fine to leave if you’re not happy, but I also think it’s dangerous to think a relationship will make you feel whole, or satisfied or “content”. You may find yourself constantly seeking that when the only place you’ll ever find that kind of fulfilment is in yourself. All I’m trying to say is listen to your intuition, not Tiktok, or people on the internet.
2026-04-11 18:02:27
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★AMP< ♡ :
My copy of The Reflection You Never Faced by Emma Vale is already covered in highlights. There are so many good gems in here.
2026-04-10 23:16:56
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kwilson10x :
I really needed to hear this today. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years last week. He is the nicest boy on the planet but it just wasn’t right. This video has reminded me that I made the right choice. He just wasn’t the one for me x
2026-04-10 21:15:53
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bionicf :
Just the message I needed. I love my ex but we both knew we had different visions of the life we want. He is content, I strive to be better every day. ❤️
2026-04-08 21:20:25
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angelaxcruz :
I’m also 27 and in a 6 year LDR, I have so much love for him but I am no longer IN love with him .. there’s so many more layers to this shit but it is what it is and we are taking a break
2026-06-03 06:49:18
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Denise🤍 :
I been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and it feels so heavy to walk away . Everyone loves him and he is so sweet but my heart isn't there. No one seems to understand that I can't carry on with this anymore
2026-05-18 16:24:42
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kidskeleton :
I’ve ended my 3 year relationship, we were engaged as well. He’s so nice and kind but there is just some fundamental things missing. I was afraid I wouldn’t find someone as kind as him but there’s so many people in the world and you really CAN have it all.
2026-04-10 17:13:29
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Agirlintheworld :
3 days ago after 11 years together, I finally said no more. I need to put myself first 🥰
2026-04-10 16:15:48
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annasage :
Completely agree!!! Broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years for the exact same reason…I’m rebuilding my life at 28!
2026-05-22 12:01:04
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theycallmepaul :
Love isn’t enough to keep a relationship going. That realization might be the biggest heartbreak of it all
2026-04-13 16:16:19
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Engr. Ram 🐏 :
May this kind of person doesn’t find me 🖤
2026-04-13 02:07:24
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hitemwithyourcar :
At the end of the day life is too short to force yourself into something that just isn’t working.
2026-04-11 19:17:20
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marion ⭒ ugc & SoMe :
it was my biggest lesson in 2025 & in my 20s 💌💌💌
2026-04-09 07:42:33
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dani :
you said the right words at the exact moment i needed to hear them the most, thank you love ❤️
2026-04-08 21:11:52
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wmclnnn :
But being on the receiving end of this - I now don’t know what I did wrong? Like how do I work on being someone she’d have felt right with? I obviously don’t think we should be together if she didn’t feel right, but it leaves me in a pretty rubbish position.. she felt right to me
2026-04-09 11:43:00
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eVerses | PsychoWriter :
Everyone leaving good people to prove what point? Later go about thinking it’s greener outside until they learn the hard way.
2026-05-10 08:13:19
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Jen :
@Jen: Holy coincidence! Seeing this in my fyp on our supposed to be 4th anniversary. We were together for almost 4 years too, i also left and also rebuilding mh life at 27. He was also a nice guy and I felt bad leaving because it wasnt that bad, and I legit told my mom “what if hes the best life can offer me and I let all of it go?”. I left because I realized that I was shrinking my life for him, to fit in his life, and it came to a point that I felt so spent and desperate to feel alive again. i realized that staying in the relationship isnt serving the life I want to have and all the wonders and exprience life can give me
2026-04-17 17:54:14
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who.is.chris :
Literally just broke up with my 4 years relationship for this exact reason. It’s so fresh and all these things you are saying I’m worried about
2026-05-02 22:20:19
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MissSM :
learning to love things without the need to hold on to it is also a beautiful thing
2026-04-19 14:54:24
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