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️reimi. :
Super nakaka pagod maging panganay yung tipong hindi ka maka usad para sa sarili mo dahil iniisip mo sila.
2026-04-12 09:36:49
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🐉🪼 :
It’s also a blessing at the same time because I get to see my siblings in every phase of their lives. I’ve been able to witness them grow up, from being babies who couldn’t walk yet to kids who can now run, do the things they love, and discover new things. I’m so proud of them, not just as their ate, but also as their second parent. I’ve seen them from their first day on earth up to now. I never get tired of listening to their rants, but of course, I sometimes wonder what it feels like to have an older sibling. I’m happy that even though I don’t have an older sibling, I’m still able to be the older sibling my younger self dreamed of having
2026-04-11 15:11:24
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amber :
Like wdym we need to mature in a young age just to be a second parent for our younger siblings.
2026-04-11 14:44:27
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jy :
tlgang sumpa, sakin lahat sinisisi/pinapagalitan laging mali yung nakikita sakin.
2026-04-11 15:20:44
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roxx.reibbs 🦋 :
Bawal Mapagod, Bawal Magkamali. Kasi wala kang back up. Ikaw ang back up. Every.First Born.ever
2026-04-12 14:51:34
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Rishani's Craft and find :
hugs for us mga panganay na babae🫂😌
2026-04-12 14:56:20
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shiren :
Literal na sumpa, kasi parang invisible lang sakanila yung ginagawa kong tama, araw-araw pinapagalitan palagi nalang akong mali sa paningin nila!!
2026-04-11 14:19:41
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cmm :
panganay here, all I could say is we need to be strong🫶
2026-04-12 08:00:18
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nuggeettss :
this was always my mindset, until i realized that God has a purpose kaya ako naging panganay. yes, it might be unfair kasi nagiging second parent tayo, but it molds us to be better and stronger in all ways. hugs to us panganays! 💖
2026-04-14 14:26:59
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🍪 :
Sometimes, it really feels true that being the eldest is a curse. Some things feel too good to be true, yet we still have to accept everything as it is. As the older ones, we carry responsibilities that others don’t always see. We’re expected to be strong, to understand our family’s situation, and to put others first even when it’s hard. It’s not easy, and sometimes it hurts, but we’re learning that patience, acceptance, and resilience are part of growing up and keeping our family together.
2026-04-12 00:26:43
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sh4inee :
IT REALLY FEELS LIKE A CURSE. Being the eldest daughter means becoming a third parent, forced to grow up too early even when you’re not ready. You put your siblings first before yourself, take on responsibilities that were never meant for you, and become the one everyone depends on. You hide your own feelings and keep going despite the exhaustion, while quietly wishing someone would also care for and understand you. It’s a silent kind of pain that no one notices, but you carry it every day, even at the cost of losing yourself.
2026-04-12 22:31:06
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Reign :
Mahirap maging panganay na babae lalo na kapag ikaw yung nag step up para sa family. Nakakapagod, nakaka ubos, yung tipong wala ng natitira sayo kasi binibigay mo lahat para sa kanila. Di ko naman responsibility yun, pero ginusto kong gawin yun, kasi gusto lahat kami mananalo sa buhay. Laban lang! 💪🏻
2026-04-14 04:07:30
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j. :
hugs for us mga panganay na babae🫂😌
2026-04-14 10:27:21
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LOVELY BERN :
As panganay parang ako yung naging pangalawang magulang sa mga kapatid ko. It's suffocating here in adult life , full of pressure and responsibilities .Nagmamadali pa ako lumaki to help them pero ganito pala kabigat maging Panganay at maging Breadwinner. Instead na ako ang magrarant sa magulang ko sila na ang nagrarant sakin, palaging natawag Silang Ate I need to buy this, ate I need your help. But what about me ? Kanino ako sasandig? Ang bigat Lord 😭
2026-04-12 12:14:56
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GAB :
ayon, may kakampi ako.
2026-04-11 17:09:52
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Cristine Cassandra :
As a panganay dapat unli ang pera mo ☹️kaya always pray to God for big opportunities guys. Feeling ko pinanganak ako para bumuhay sa family ko. Simula pagkabata ramdam ko na talaga na mahirap kami and night mare talaga pag walang makain
2026-04-14 18:04:39
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prdx :
Being an eldest is both a blessing and a curse.
2026-04-12 21:52:12
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jessaberry🍓 :
kaway² sating mga ateh!!!
2026-04-12 00:42:39
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. :
Sumpa ba? Maybe this is the life we didn’t expect. But I wouldn’t say I am a sumpa because my parents raised me well without any past trauma. I feel lucky that I am their firstborn—they gave their best as first-time parents. I’m saying life is not perfect because sometimes I’m the ate who always gets scolded, but I will never keep any resentment toward them. I’m really happy that I am their firstborn💖
2026-04-12 08:22:17
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~ellie_xz｡♪✿ :
and then you suddenly force to understand,yearn, and be strong for them. no matter what don't give up twin🫂
2026-04-11 14:01:19
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Rica Mae Perez :
At some point maybe it became a burden. But you know what, the fullfillment we have when our little sibling appreciate us in small things we do. That is something to sleep in comfort at night. Specially pag naririnig mo sila na "ate ko yan" that is something to pat yourself. Laban lang mga ate.
2026-04-12 20:27:41
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Sun_ray :
Nakakapagod pero kung mas mahal mo ang pamilya mo kesa sa sarili mo masasabi mong worth it ang pag sisikap mo kasi may nagawa ma para sa kanila na hindi mo na magagawa in the futur kapag mag sariling pamilya ka na. Hi I'm laine 25 yrs old panganay saming 4 na magkakapatid masasabi kong "mahirap man pero kakayanin dahil mahal ko sila" kaya sa lahat ng panganay remember this sumpa mang maitatawag ay alam mo sa sarili mong naging responsable kang "Panganay" sa lahat. To all my mga "Panganay" we are proud of you❤️
2026-04-14 07:07:03
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shumei :
the pressure is onto me always like when everything feels like going down, all i need is to be strong but for how long?
2026-04-12 12:34:00
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shinderella🎱 :
the fact na hindi ako pwedeng mag asawa hanggat hindi natatapos lahat ng brothers ko sa college. and it takes more than 8 years for them to finishd college. by that I'll be 30+
2026-04-12 09:52:54
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j :
I sometimes wish to have an older brother ☹️
2026-04-11 16:53:26
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