@thegrieftable: Let’s talk about four truths about grief that every grieving heart deserves to know. Truth one: Grief does not follow a timeline. It does not move on, it moves with you. You do not “get over” the person you love. Grief can hit on anniversaries, holidays, or a random afternoon when a song plays or you smell their favorite meal. That is not going backwards, it is your love responding. Truth two: Grief lives in the body. Exhaustion, tightness in your chest, a pit in your stomach, brain fog, restlessness, or trouble sleeping are all ways your nervous system is trying to make sense of a world that no longer matches what it was wired for with them in it. Your body is not broken. It is telling the story of your loss. Truth three: Grief lives in the brain. Your mind keeps searching for their voice, their presence, their patterns. Feeling disoriented or forgetful, walking around in a haze, is your brain trying to update reality while still holding on to what was. That fog is a normal response to an unbearable change. Truth four: Your ongoing connection is not a problem to fix. That continuing bond, the way you talk to them, dream of them, keep their traditions, or feel them beside you, is not “being stuck.” It is love in a different form. Grief is not about closure. What helps us is connection, sharing our stories, saying their names, and sitting with people who know that love and loss now coexist. If you see yourself in any of these, you are not broken and you are not grieving wrong. Your grief is proof that your love was real. Tell me in the comments which truth you needed most today. #grief #grieftok #griefjourney #griefsupport #griefandloss #somaticgrief #continuingbonds #healing #MentalHealth

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jamielcall3
Mom*of*3 :
Thank you, Jamie. Yesterday was Sammy’s 26th birthday. I made it through. We honored them, we shared a lovely picnic… a quiet way to celebrate him. But today, it’s only 5am, but I’m already tired and drained. The guilt I feel on these days is heavy. People expect me to be “okay”. That “day” is over. So I should be okay. But ill
2026-04-10 11:10:44
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barbarahann
barbarahann :
I hate the holidays now and I am dreading, dreading the holidays. I am back in our home for the first time during the holidays in 4 years. I was better u t
2026-09-29 23:30:21
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jonescutj8d
Dallas Fan :
Thank you so much for sharing this. I am struggling so hard and this is so comforting to me. All that I’m going through is normal. Somedays I feel like I’m in never going to be ok again.
2026-04-10 02:44:02
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goldn2k24
🦋Golden🌹❌️ :
Thank you. This is difficult am usually strong1 😢😔😭💔
2026-09-28 20:47:18
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deen1r
Deen :
Thank you for sharing this
2026-09-29 15:24:46
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tinantattooink
TINA TATTOO :
This is me in all that you said, Thank You! 🙏
2026-06-06 19:36:06
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ladylanore
LadyLanore :
Thank you for this. 🙏
2026-05-09 07:45:54
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dawn2dusk1975
dawn2dusk1975❌ :
I lost my soul dog 6 weeks ago. Your video means so much. Thank you.
2026-08-22 00:28:24
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sandythegranny
user835265872300 :
Thank you .. I can’t seem to function normally anymore .. brain fog most of the time.. I am not the same person..
2026-04-11 09:50:42
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nancysleeptokenfan81
ᛑᛗᛛ Nancy ᛑᛗᛛ :
the waiting is so tiresome. ugh. im so tired. I just want to stop hurting and waiting.
2026-04-10 18:05:38
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cowboysfan19728
cowboysfan19728 :
Thank you for your video. Your comments definitely resonate with me. I lost my wife and best friend of 35 years a little over a year ago so I totally get what you are saying.
2026-04-11 15:46:17
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arthur.flores5147
Arthur Flores :
Dallas( Houston here) I feel that same . So broken , so lost without my Mom (8+mis ago.) Depression , therapy i don’t even recognize myself . I slept jn 4 diff hospitals with her . Im the oldest;single parent in the Houston Barrio.We are all successful because of her. At her deathbed I told everything I have is because “of YOU” man it’s hard
2026-06-08 00:23:06
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kimeed2004
Kimberly Zato-De Arm :
Thank you! I lost my husband 23 mos ago on a Tuesday so unexpectedly! I'm not the person I used to be!
2026-04-11 16:53:00
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sofiacornejo161
sofiacornejo161 :
Thank
2026-06-29 00:42:28
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br0kens0ul38
br0kens0ul38 :
I just want the pain to go away
2026-06-03 10:00:09
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graciegoeseverywhere
Gracie Goes Everywhere :
I love the theory of continuing bonds ❤️
2026-04-09 23:11:32
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shantel6868
shantel6868 :
I’m learning I’ll never be the same
2026-04-09 22:47:17
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jen.ee
💕 Jennie 💕 :
I cannot begin to tell enough how much I needed to hear this today! Thank you so much for sharing!
2026-04-14 13:07:23
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ibeans4
ibeans4 :
I still tell my Mama goodnight every night. When I make a certain dish I think of her, I still cry. Trying to navigate helping an adult children with disabilities which includes Autism and deal with my own grief is overwhelming.
2026-04-12 00:14:00
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nessalou81
Nessa Lou :
This came at the perfect time. Missing my son extra today.
2026-04-10 02:26:00
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healingjourney4440
Healing🪷Journey🪷444 :
It’s just not fair!!! I wish no one has to go through grief! It’s been the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with!!
2026-06-28 21:33:51
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rgodwin
Randy G :
You explain grief the best way I have ever heard. It’s like my soul at its very deepest depth says yes, she gets it. You’re so right in every way you have explained it. You are for sure touching hurting souls and lives in such a positive and impactful way. Very grateful for your words of kindness and understanding. May all that is good follow you all of your days . Much respect 🙏🏻
2026-04-10 12:04:32
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mrjoselbatista1
MrJoseLBatista1 :
Thank you so much THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU !!
2026-06-16 14:24:22
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col197112
col1971 :
Thank you
2026-05-16 00:48:22
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squeezedbutsoaring
Melissa | Sandwich Generation :
Full body experience. Yes. Thank you for speaking this truth.
2026-07-06 14:24:23
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