Dr. Nicole LePera
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Erin Finnell :
As a recovering anxious attachment: learn to self soothe
2026-04-10 16:46:37
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NegaNeenja :
I realized, i only have anxious attachment, when im with an avoidant. if they also have anxious or secure attachment, im perfectly fine
2026-04-16 07:14:33
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Lily 💞 :
Can you be a little bit of both because they sound like me? 😂
2026-04-10 00:24:03
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GI Newton :
Um. Respectfully? OK BUT HOW DO I STOOOOPPPPPP BEING THAT ANXIOUS!! Like yes, self-love, hobbies, keep yourself busy, talk to reseoucrs and therapy, blah blah blaaaaah I get it. But in those PIT moments or worse, in those moments when you can’t get out of the loop, or even worse when you’re not thinking about and it triggers? Well that’s the skit I neeeed. Show me what it looks like for an anxious attachment in solo moments and techniques they can do to be there for themselves when it feels IMPOSSIBLE TO GET OUT OF BED.
2026-04-15 17:28:33
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AnothrUserName :
There's a way the two can have a functional, thriving relationship. It takes self-awareness and an approach to conflict that includes structure, timing, process, rules of engagement, repair loops, pauses to avoid escalation, and not accumulating unrepaired problems. It sounds like a lot of work, but it's not difficult.
2026-04-20 19:02:09
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Jessimca :
Why is this combination so attracted to each other?! It doesn’t make sense but it happens a lot
2026-04-10 22:56:46
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David Vaughan🇨🇦 :
is it possible to be anxious and avoidant at the same time
2026-05-07 19:01:54
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Jinx ✰ :
when I realize I'm both
2026-04-10 13:14:02
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Caris🖤🏳️🌈 :
but like… how do we fix this?!😅
2026-04-10 00:26:16
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Kristin🌸🌸 :
So how do I get out of the spiral
2026-04-18 02:44:06
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itzzmndza._ :
three weeks since I finished Align and Receive by Luna Veyra and the synchronicities won't stop. this is actually real 💫
2026-05-07 10:21:56
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Erin :
Dr Nicole killing me this week with the bangers
2026-04-10 00:43:54
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TheYappining :
Avoidant attachment? Anxious attachment? Nah. ✨Zero attachments✨
2026-07-03 15:58:13
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Norman :
As an anxious attacher, I had to learn to let them go
2026-04-12 18:34:30
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Wittyusername :
Well that was a rude summary of my last relationship 😏
2026-04-10 05:45:51
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Julieta :
33 years of this dynamic. no wonder I'm so tired
2026-04-10 02:05:51
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Mykel Traneice :
But why if you both at the same time😅
2026-04-10 00:59:07
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t.straythorne :
I'd love to see a secure attachment with someone with anxious attachment and/or the other attachment styles. I'm secure, and my husband is anxious. we're finally going into couples therapy to help with miscommunication yay 🥳
2026-04-10 03:11:02
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𝕊✺𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝓡𝐨𝐬𝐞 🥀 :
What if you’re both attachment styles? 🤔
2026-04-11 04:00:28
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DookieBowser :
i was blessed with both
2026-06-17 13:31:50
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angelabrooke12 :
🫤 the algorithm is listening a little too closely
2026-06-04 10:07:10
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Brenda Trammell :
What if I do both
2026-04-10 04:35:51
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Stephanieolo :
No one held my hand
2026-05-07 19:15:11
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pam.ella.lopez :
and now i’m disorganized so i see these two
2026-04-11 02:26:58
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britters_7 :
So how do you regulate both?
2026-04-10 01:59:58
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