Opallauryn
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Fourleafclover🍀 :
This is why I immediately cut off people that even hint that cheating is ok. Or "there's always two sides." Because it is that serious and the betrayal is horrific.
2026-04-10 22:59:51
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🫶🏼 :
I understand this. I wasn’t perfect by any means and I definitely think there are things I should’ve done better. But I was true and honest the entire time. He went out of his way to tell *everyone* how he saw me as the biggest burden of his life when I was battling so much on my own and wanting to hold space for him and what he wants to do. It broke my spirit and a lot of that sadness has turned into anger now as I process everything.
2026-04-10 20:11:23
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findingtaco427 :
I cant express how relatable what youre going through is. im only 27 and my husband an I are divorcing after 5 years due to his affair and emotional avoidance. its been the most conflicting journey. I haven't been angry because I havent wanted to be but I am, and I am justified, and so are you in all of this. you held the pieces together while he tried to redefine the rules of your relationship.
2026-04-13 21:17:37
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Velvetsubmarine :
I totally understand this with my ex partner. This is traumatic and I hope you’re taking time to show yourself a lot of love and grace. Also, he was already in his 30s when you were 23? I’m 29 now-not even the age he was yet- and still question why my ex wanted to be with me at 21. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Sending you lots of love💜
2026-04-10 22:11:36
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Sam :
Oh no am I also you? I’m still here a year after I found out about the cheating but I have more and more doubts every day
2026-04-10 15:27:21
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Lali💖 :
god we’re living the same life
2026-04-10 18:20:32
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JamieNorth :
Trust me the switch up is weird and I also felt this desire to protect and fix after I found out. My partner didn’t understand why they didn’t get better, and clearly it was me since I couldn’t make them better. The anger has long left but the snort laugh I do now about the whole thing years later means you will get through it, feel that anger. ❤️
2026-04-10 22:59:10
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disorderlily :
he snapped at me and the next day i asked if he could come over to talk — he told me he loved me two hours before breaking up with me bc I was “too much”
2026-04-10 22:44:16
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victoriajay72 :
I was basically estranged from my parents in college when they had been distant my whole life to that point - I didn’t realize how much I needed a parental figure until after they each were mad at me for different reasons. I’d listen to sad music - because I was sad!! My ex later threw that in my face. So glad we broke up. I needed support, not judgment and assholery.
2026-04-10 22:29:19
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Lindsay Donaldson Wi :
You are so emotionally wise beyond your years, my dear!
2026-04-12 17:22:01
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Jessy Mathes :
almost my exact story
2026-04-10 19:15:06
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Brooke Megan🏳️🌈💙🇵🇸📚🧶🎸 :
no one is coming to save us. no one can complete you. but as a married woman to a cishet man, I can say with confidence that the same healing and support we receive from good friendship, we can experience in partnership with someone who is willing to be a partner. I have healed many broken things in my spouse and vise versa just by showing up and being their friend & loving them. many men are so centered on their experiences in relationships, they destroy their partners just by refusing to humanize them. their lack of ability to be a good friend is directly related to their inability to show up as a partner.
2026-04-10 17:18:50
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🪞 :
I went no contact with a parent and then met my ex, I thought he was my savior too. He means a lot to me, and I also need to take him off the pedestal too.
2026-04-10 16:40:56
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Nicole Schwabenbauer :
same for me again ! I lost my mum 3 months before I met my partner and my dad had also died years before that so I was in the lowest point of my life and very suicidal. I felt like he was a saviour as well and we met at the same age too at 22 but who you are at 22 isn't the same as now 30, we aren't in survival mode anymore, I still feel like it was meant to happen to help us get more stable in our life and ourselves but they get confused that what worked then still works now but it doesnt. Now you aren't my savour youre supposed to be my life partner and what worked then doesn't work now and if they dont step up it just doesn't work. 💕
2026-04-10 22:20:00
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🦖🦄💀 Cindy 💀🦄🦖 :
Been through that and the best thing I learned was I would not move in with another man. I lived happily by myself until I did get married and I was in my 30's. Your young and unfortunately we have these crappy relationships in our 20's to learn from.
2026-04-11 04:44:07
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