Scarlet
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Emily Figurelli :
“What do I not remember” is so real
2026-04-10 19:47:24
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liciestag :
You started drinking the tea without me?!?! It’s ruined. I don’t even want mine now
2026-04-10 19:58:56
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Kitties and rainbows vomit :
I also have 0 idea of what happened between 12 to 25 . Thanks for protecting but where is everything
2026-04-10 20:17:31
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ivan.concep :
The apology might not be needed because, as you said, you both were 11 years old and were really young, but the fact that she still reached out while having the option to keep ignoring it really shows how much she cared about you even if she didn’t comprehend it yet and neither comprehended what you were trying to explain back then. This kind of healed something in me and this isn’t even my story 😭💛
2026-04-11 12:27:56
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𝔸𝕄𝕕𝕖𝕒𝕄𝕠𝕥𝕚𝕠𝕟 :
My first memory is from when I was 2. I’ve never met someone who has memories from such a young age!
2026-04-10 19:45:59
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LaToya :
It’s oddly comforting to know I’m not the only person who doesn’t remember years of her life because of trauma.. my strong memories really start around 16/17. People always talk about childhood things and it makes me sad because my childhood memories are so patchy.
2026-04-11 01:33:21
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jskylerinc :
My ENTIRE childhood is spotty. There are stretches of years I just don’t remember.
2026-04-11 14:34:09
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nole8_5girl :
I love that she reached out and shared that with you. That took some courage on her part and how wonderful that it gave you new insight. 🥰 Question (I'm sorry if you've talked about this before) - how old were you when you realized that not everyone's parents treated them the way yours treated you? Can you share a bit about how you came to that realization and how you processed it?
2026-04-12 03:08:08
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Leah :
I had very few ‘safe’ friends at that age. Safe in the sense that I could invite them to my house and not be worried they’d look at me differently if they happened to witness the chaos of my household. I may not speak to many of them often, but they forever hold such a significant place in heart for keeping little me’s heart safe in that moment too
2026-04-10 19:51:33
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Totes :
Disassociation is such a weird phenomenon..
2026-04-11 03:55:13
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Aden Lewis :
Omg Scarlett 🥺 little you KNEW you weren’t ok and was THAT brave that she said something 😭 I’m so proud of her
2026-04-11 19:00:34
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Hales :
so proud of little you. empathy for little her not knowing how to process her friend asking for help.
2026-04-12 00:09:13
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Claire :
I hope you told her how grateful you were for her message :)
2026-04-11 20:05:47
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msmoniss :
omg you look so much like Miley Cyrus!!! in a good way!
2026-04-12 11:08:54
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JasperTreyAuthor/JTBase :
I’m proud of 11 yr old you. I don’t think I started really talking about stuff till she was gone a few years.
2026-04-11 01:02:05
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Joy ♡ :
Thank u for what you said at the end about being proud of little you because I really needed that today 😭💖
2026-04-10 20:26:34
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néka :
“i now know that eleven year old me said something” i felt that so deeply
2026-05-03 05:02:09
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Archer Roo :
You kinda looked like Miley Cyrus and sounded like her for a second! :o
2026-04-11 08:09:19
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PleatherJacket :
What a beautiful gift your friend gave you.
2026-04-11 18:08:52
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S :
Little you was fighting hard ❤️❤️❤️I relate hard to not having memories of growing up and only the worst memories remain.
2026-04-11 00:19:00
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Mackel :
“I’m so proud of little me” are some of the powerful words in healing💗
2026-04-11 17:29:03
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Bree :
Okay I don’t know your whole situation but I studied psych and your instinct on why you remember what you do is spot on- we hold onto the bad rather than the good because it is a survival mechanism for protecting ourselves, especially when certain behaviors or outcomes are habitual. Additionally, not remembering if you spoke up to someone is also protective as it puts a barrier between the action and the danger of it being found out by your parents. I hope this helps! Remembering can be terrifying but you are so strong for working through it
2026-04-12 16:59:03
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𝔟𝔢𝔢𝔢𝔩𝔩𝔞 :
We are also so proud of little and now you 🥹
2026-04-12 09:58:48
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Daphne :
I totally get the un ease of not remembering years of your life, especially in middle school.
2026-04-10 19:51:29
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Tish :
Omg, the ending with a reminder about sitting with your little kid self and being proud of how far you’ve come and the adult you turned into hit me in the feels 😭 thank you for sharing your experiences on your healing journey 🩷
2026-04-10 21:11:03
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