@drrichardlouismiller: Do you know what your core values are? Not what your parents said. Not what your school said. Not what the government says. Yours. Take 10 or 15 minutes and write them down. What are you willing to live with? What's a deal-breaker? What kind of person do you want to be at the supermarket, in traffic, in an argument? Those answers are your core values. And they're going to direct your life whether you've written them down or not. Better to know what they are. Put them on a card. Carry it with you.