i hate this kind of parenting. yes your children are dependent on you because there literally children but there also people too and this is super invalidating to them
2026-04-21 18:30:43
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purpleapplepie 🇨🇦 :
That’s kinda harsh. Teenagers 100% can have plans. They have lives too
2026-04-11 13:46:20
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✨ Adrienne ✨ :
This should actually NOT be unpopular. This should be the standard.
2026-04-12 11:54:59
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Dark Angel :
You dont need money to have plans
2026-04-11 08:08:35
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BRUNO :
all these parents are never hearing from their child again in a few years 😭
2026-05-03 20:59:19
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Fi :
Why do you think it’s ok to talk about your kids like that? It’s just wrong
2026-04-17 12:55:16
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Jessie :
I had to ask for permission to make plans until I was 18… I thought this was the standard
2026-04-15 18:07:34
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User :
You want your children to be independent. Not always under your thumb. Being social and having friends is so important. Consider yourself lucky that your child has friends to make plans with. There has to be a balance.
2026-04-11 19:20:46
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jointpain :
this is unpopular for a reason 😭
2026-05-03 15:55:02
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Nic C🇮🇪 :
As a child of this kind of parenting;
2026-05-04 13:38:56
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soph 🎹 :
this is insane, your role as a parent shoukd be to support your children. not critisise them. why arre you dissmissing them, teenagers are people and speaking from experiance, have a range of plans from volunteering, work, social clubs/youth centres, friends. and even if these plans are just to see a friend, why is that so bad?? if your teenager was nothing nothing im sure you would complain that 'gen z have no work ethic and dont wanna do anything'. teenagers (and EVERYONE) need respect, love and support, not to be belittled by their own parents
2026-05-04 00:22:03
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E🍂 :
nah that's insane. I'm a teen and I def have plans that don't involve my mom.
2026-05-05 13:44:21
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alex :
I have to disagree a bit. Everything in our house can be a discussion. Let’s talk about these plans. No attitude needed.
2026-04-13 15:30:16
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Alessia :
Why my kids don’t talk to me anymore?
2026-05-04 10:32:05
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local lover :
”Why my kids dont talk to me anymore after moving out???🥺🥺🥺”
2026-05-04 13:37:18
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dz4n! :
This kind of parenting is the one that gets you without kids when you need them the most, teenagers CAN have plans and SHOULD have plans they are people too
2026-05-04 18:15:18
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Tana Moschetti :
I’m gonna go hug my parents for never raising my brothers and I like this then show my teenager this so he knows he is so lucky.
2026-05-04 18:59:03
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699sg :
You are 100% correct! We need of this parenting these days. Too many kids control their parents and the house.
2026-05-11 10:43:18
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michelle :
“why dont my kids talk to me anymore”
2026-05-15 19:35:21
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Teresa Lamphere 💙 :
No money, no prospect of money, no plans.
2026-04-11 05:16:11
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nelsiemckenzie :
Respect goes both ways the teen should do as asked and the mom should understand that u don’t need money for every plan
2026-04-25 10:20:26
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John :
Yeah my parents were super strict…had to do what I was told and when…they used to say “ when you’re paying your own bill you can do what you want”….and now I haven’t spoken to my parents in 15 years…I felt like anything I said didn’t matter and I was never heard and now I’m no contact
2026-04-15 21:01:53
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carli :
Nope, it’s very popular and it needs to be said more often. Thank you.
2026-04-11 00:33:53
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THEMrsWicker :
You constantly help me feel like I’m not alone in these teenage trenches.
2026-04-11 11:55:00
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Denyze 🇨🇦 :
I LOVES THIS. I am going to have to remember this. My kids are only 11 & 9. So I am going to keep this in my back pocket 🥰
2026-04-10 23:35:27
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