@castelvetranogirl: sorry i struggle opening up

ying :

Then they get mad because I’m upset

SirCvnti :

Being on the other side of this, it’s not that I’m mad at them for being upset. I’m mad at myself because I don’t feel like I’m doing a good enough job that they can’t tell me they’re upset.

Notsosecretposts :

And then i end being the one who says sorry after my feelings just got hurt

ytnewt. :

☹️I cry too much bruh

🐉ixneezz :

ᥫ᭡. :

i feel so bad for my boyfriend because I act this way. I struggle to communicate my feelings especially if something is bothering me. I’d much rather just quietly feel my emotions then to put them onto him when he’s already constantly putting up with all my other bs. I want so badly to be able to be confident in my feelings mad admit when something is genuinely hurting me because he makes me feel safe enough to do that and I love him so much for that. I just think the way I grew up and past relationships I’ve been in have deeply affected the way I am today in ways I didn’t even realize until I met him because I hadn’t ever tried before, im not sure if that makes sense but it’s almost as if though him coming into my life has been slowly helping me heal the parts I’ve always said I’d work on but haven’t ever given a second thought. He fixes those parts of me and I couldn’t even begin to thank him enough for all the ways he loves and cares for me. I just hope he feels safe and comfortable enough to open up to me if I’m ever doing something or hurting him in anyway ugh. I wish I had met him when I was a better version of me but im so grateful he came into my life when he did because he’s truly saved me in more ways than one.

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i don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings i physically cannot bring myself to tell anyone if im upset with them or something they did like physically i don’t know why

gavins.wife3 :

NO TS SO REAL LIKE WHY ARE YOU GETTING MAD? IM TELLING YOU HOW YYYOOOUUUU MADE ME FEEL UPSET

august :

@lucy.lu223 i’m sorry for making you feel like I was forcing you to tell me everything but it’s your choice. You don’t have to tell me anything Lucy I’m sorry I didn’t realize I was making you feel that way and I’m sorry for being upset. I just wanted our communication to be good but now I realize it’s not about telling your significant other everything it’s communicating and talking things out and helping that other person get through times and I’m sorry I didn’t realize that sooner but you know I love you and I hope you’re having an amazing time on your trip and as long as you’re happy and I’m happy too

Courtney 🐈‍⬛ :

If I act emotional I’m “starting arguments” but if I act emotionless “there’s clearly something wrong” I can’t do anything right…

📧rsa :

So we all are having a mental breakdown and crying right now ?

💐💐💐 :

And then I tell them so they won’t be mad anymore and they just get even more mad

MR :

girl i've been holding my tears since 3 hours ago..but u got me crying 😅

juliette :

wait delete this

myliorac :

gausah stress, gapapa, tenangin diri sendiri dulu lebih penting daripada kecewa sama respon orang lain

sagerealm_15 :

This timing is actually unreal

ariii♱ :

Taki :

I don’t wanna be a burden. He has so much going on… and I’m a strong girl, I can do it. I’ll do it all myself right?

ashleey :

or cause another damn argument.

Whinnie like The Pooh :

anytime i tell him anything anymore, good or bad, he gets angry. its like he hates me

˚💐💝𝐀𝐮𝐝𝐬 🫶🌷˚ :

i cant win