Victoria | Nervous System
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Jennie :
This is extremely relevant to high-masking, neurodivergent people.
2026-04-14 22:21:56
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Happihale :
No people around = no need to perform
2026-04-15 20:37:10
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Alex :
Eldest daughter, perfectionist, people pleaser with and emotionally immature mother 🙋🏼♀️
2026-04-17 11:55:18
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Markie :
it's exhausting being around other people.
2026-04-13 12:18:40
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lululuomin :
I like doing fun things with strangers that I don't have to meet ever again (because I can be happy with everyone and won't ever have the chance to disappoint them next time)
2026-04-15 05:03:29
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Ellie 🦋🪷 :
Hard relate, I can’t fully relax when other people are present
2026-04-12 21:10:41
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kyllie🫧 :
Someone said to be perceived is to perform
2026-04-15 18:09:38
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mariana_nc_ :
I’ve been saying this to my therapist!! Being alone = I can be my true authentic self = my fawn response can catch a break = I’m safe
2026-04-12 22:56:38
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Katie 🐢 :
It’s how I regulate myself
2026-04-15 08:35:33
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Jan C :
As soon as I am around other people I feel very self conscious about how I look, what they are thinking and I end up doing things I don't want to do 🤪
2026-04-13 08:17:11
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Molly 🦢 :
Also, sometimes we attract takers - people who do expect us to show up in a certain way, and if we don’t, they don’t like it. Which kind of reinforces the cycle 😵💫
2026-04-12 18:53:54
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R. say'ma :
hey...I just logged in?
2026-04-20 17:41:15
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kenziecoast :
Being alone = no expectations to meet
2026-04-20 19:56:37
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erremartinez_ :
to be perceived is to perform 😤
2026-04-15 15:53:17
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Chelsi 🇨🇦 :
You didn’t hold my hand first
2026-04-15 03:39:52
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Cat :
I just don’t like to be perceived.
2026-05-09 05:41:10
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illia :
When I am alone I can act however I want, watch or listen to whatever I want, joke as it’s funny to me and I don’t feel ashamed or judged or perceived in any kind of way
2026-05-10 05:12:08
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cherry :
this is getting too personal
2026-04-18 14:30:30
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Mimi :
Me watching this
2026-04-17 05:49:39
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acidrflx :
Is it similar to being more sociable in places where no one knows you? I have higher walls around people I encounter regularly. I think that's why I like travelling with fewer select people, it feels more freeing.
2026-05-07 04:04:56
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🍎 :
that’s why I can’t wrap my head around the idea of marriage😭 because what do you mean the show must go on 24/7. no breaks. no me time.
2026-05-07 23:03:56
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Yana :
Alone is just when I feel safest. I never walk away questioning any moments or experiences that I spend alone. With people, constant rumination and overthinking every little thing.
2026-04-17 02:23:17
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pick 1 later :
eldest daughter here... i stopped performing a while ago n now im perceived as depressed, angry and other things... I just would rather not explain myself constantly 😑
2026-05-12 06:07:34
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Kaitlyn O’Brien :
gahh yes! solitude >>
2026-04-12 18:36:40
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🥷🏽 :
This is me!! I’m the eldest daughter, a people pleaser, single, can’t delegate so I end up doing everything, hate attention, get overwhelmed & over stimulated & love being left alone 😅
2026-04-13 09:59:10
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