Kristen
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Nina :
I practice being unreliable and inconsistent. It’s very freeing.
2026-04-12 22:27:56
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suburban.adventuress :
Letting go of the standards is IT. My husband leaves his sweaty clothes outside to dry (in full view/eyesore) and I’ve stopped bringing them in after they dry; they’ll be there for DAYS. This used to kill me but now I feel like I’m fighting a tiny war by ignoring it 😂
2026-04-13 14:42:24
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Stormy :
I have shifted away from taking care of everything. It's beautiful.
2026-04-13 04:11:34
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Brislin 🇦🇺 :
I like to say things like “You’ve got this” and “You’re clever enough to research that for yourself if you’re interested enough. You don’t need me to do it.”
2026-04-13 00:18:40
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Ree :
I love your videos, are there any forums to meet other women who are on the same wavelength?
2026-04-12 19:34:13
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Dragonfly :
I spent 20 years taking down the patriarchy by raising my daughter to be powerful and independent
2026-05-09 19:45:21
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laraanne89 :
I trust you to figure it out is an incredible line lol
2026-04-13 11:32:27
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FurTribeMoma :
I'm getting a divorce because I can no longer allow the State to define the nature of my relationship. I'm Done ✅
2026-04-12 21:40:27
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Rebecca Sullivan369 :
Divorce and living alone for the first time in my life has been majorly effective💜
2026-04-14 15:58:31
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Roxanne :
I separated from my ex 15 months ago and we continued to live in same house for nearly a year. This taught me so much, how to set boundaries, addressing the issue when boundaries are crossed, adding consequences when boundaries are crossed again, following through with consequences, understanding that the ex didn't think I was smart or capable but just wanted someone else to do it/the work, noticing how I would always take everyone else's needs into consideration but my own, stopped explaining and said things like what would you at work? started saying no assistance a complete sentence. The rest of my family who didn't already see our dynamic, now did. so freeing
2026-04-14 02:16:52
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Taryn Bettini :
I did this a few years ago, told my two 20 something children I would no longer be preparing meals. Food would be available in the house, but I’m not preparing the meals. They were shocked for a while but it’s our normal now. I don’t do their laundry either. The rest of the standards for the home are completely my own and what I’m prepared to do. It works for me x
2026-04-13 08:17:11
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Michelle 💙|✨TX Wife&Mom :
Thank you so much for your series on patriarchy. I’ve learned so much and am eager to go back and research further details. It’s fascinating and so important. Dismantling is so empowering. I’ve unconsciously been doing so gradually within my own 38 yr marriage. Thankfully, my husband is so very supportive and we are both learning.
2026-04-13 15:47:30
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jen_moonincancer :
I am so grateful for your content. 🙏💕
2026-04-12 19:31:13
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Deborah the Zeborah :
Excellent practical advice.
2026-04-12 19:30:10
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user2524982632801 :
Truly great advice! Still trying to embody this as I near 50, and I hope I can teach my daughters so they are saved from years of pain as I experienced from the patriarchy that just didn't need to be.
2026-04-12 19:51:37
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Tamara :
Thank you for addressing how to manage the guilt.
2026-04-13 11:00:55
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fortearia :
Off topic but I commented on a video a few months ago saying you look like a celebrity I can’t place and said you got Bruce a lot but I figured it out I think you’re a mature miss honey from Matilda!
2026-04-13 02:33:06
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Mel Dixon 🇦🇺 [-o-] :
Kristen, thank you. I needed your account right now. Please keep going, your advice is so valued. ✊🏻
2026-04-13 09:39:45
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🪶Avia Bolt🪷 :
There are parts of me that say “you shouldn’t be feeling this” or “this is so mean.” But I keep going 💪🏼 #dismantle
2026-04-13 03:20:05
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floating_petunia :
Can you please talk more about guilt. I’m struggling so so much. I’ve had to go no contact minimal contact with everyone I love out of preservation. And that “there it is” helped but like I need a better understanding
2026-04-13 02:23:47
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nataliecontesini :
I love you! I see you constantly on my fyp and I think you are so amazing and give priceless much needed advice! 👏👏👏
2026-04-12 20:08:16
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cruisegirl :
I began to de-center my husband while also matching his energy. My husband thought I was being "mean" to him.
2026-06-12 01:07:14
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Sunday.bird :
I told an ex not to reach out to me and he did he wasn’t a bad guy he was nice and really liked me. My brain wanted to be nice and have a conversation then I realized no. I don’t have talk to you!! So I told him no. And didn’t explain.
2026-05-24 13:07:04
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Ella English Author Artist🇬🇧 :
I live on my own and happily divorced so I just labor for myself and my cats.
2026-05-20 14:46:16
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Caroline :
Thank you for the encouragement. ❤️
2026-04-15 18:32:51
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