I feel like sometimes some things keep coming up because they don’t get truly resolved.
2026-04-13 06:06:21
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Ricky B :
patterns need to be addressed
2026-04-13 19:51:56
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TEE 🧚🏾 :
If you fix the mistake I wouldn’t have to keep bringing it up correct?
2026-04-14 18:48:59
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tatia1837 :
A lot of times when the past is being brought up, it’s because that same action is being done in the present. If they wanted to be a best version of themselves they would change the behavior so it would not be brought up again. A safe place is not one where you are put in repeated situations just a different day. Safe place is changed behavior.
2026-04-13 14:34:18
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The Branches! :
A lot of comments are saying it’s because it’s not resolved. People do not understand that part of an issue being resolved means you have to resolve it within yourself as well as the other person. Y’all can hash things out but if you still have negative emotions towards whatever subject, YOU have to work on that with YOU.
2026-04-14 14:11:17
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TeacHER | Brittany M.Ed :
What I hear when the behavior I keep bringing up is still occurring 🤣
2026-04-14 22:24:12
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_jj1983 :
Everyone’s missing his message. He’s saying in a new argument you’re bringing up old stuff. Basically to add on to the new argument. The past stuff could have been discussed and moved on from but when you’re angry, ppl tend to bring up old stuff. And if you’re bringing up old stuff you are not really over it. Thats an issue YOU need to fix.
2026-04-14 04:53:09
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austin_notx :
I definitely hold grudges. I always bring up old stuff and he hates bringing up “the past” but to me it’s not that old if it happen a few months ago. Feels like yesterday.I think I also bring stuff back up if it was never really resolved
2026-04-13 03:16:53
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Johnnie :
I don’t agree with this, at all. I can understand a mistake, but what about a pattern of the same mistake.
2026-04-16 11:52:33
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Camille Morales :
WAIT!!! HOL UP! If I continuously bring stuff up from the past, THAT means, #nothing has been cleared up to move forward...
2026-04-15 00:49:42
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HTheGoddess :
I only bring it up to make a point that is a reoccurring issue.
2026-04-13 17:43:38
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jojoisinthehouse1 :
Maybe those issues were never resolved
2026-04-14 19:56:59
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Tee :
Silent repost man 💔 I’m so over it like damn I get it I did terrible things but don’t keep reminding me about it when I’m tryna be better. hate ts w a passion it tends to bring me down but wtv !
2026-04-25 21:18:09
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Mrlee Lee :
patterns need to be addressed
2026-04-15 16:39:34
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Mother Earth :
It’s about recognize and speak on pattern! Also if there wasn’t any resolve it will come up again!
2026-04-20 18:53:51
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EatingFoodWithLc :
@TULSA NAIL TECH💅🏾
2026-04-14 23:31:33
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♏️⭐️{Simply ArrJay}⭐️♏️ :
It’s always a mistake tho. How many times are you gonna make the same “mistake”before you realize it’s a conscious decision?
2026-04-13 21:08:34
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DaNeLeNe🌑✨ :
it's not mistakes brought back it's recognizing a reoccurring pattern that was discussed.. if the pattern truly has changed definitely it will not be brought back up
2026-04-14 14:52:21
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Cici 🦦♥️ :
I just hold grudges 😭
2026-04-15 03:25:19
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CDiGesu :
When your partners continues repeating the same patterns it’s a bigger problem than Just bringing things up. It’s turned into a way of life.
2026-05-06 22:45:38
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Rastahh | NICU FTM 👼🏽🩵 :
If I’m still bringing up things from the past, it’s because it still bothers me.. meaning it didn’t get resolved properly. Things tend to not get resolved properly because sometimes people just put the issue behind them so you don’t have to keep arguing with your partner. But hey that’s just “my Intake”
2026-04-13 13:16:38
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Jazmen Gamble :
Agree and disagree. If the previous issue doesn't get resolved it comes up. or if the same thing happens again it's shows that hey there's a pattern!
2026-04-13 13:59:02
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iamm._.tea :
I agree with you but at the same time things kept on coming up because there was no change from that pass conversion so just voicing my concerns.
2026-05-06 17:20:07
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Sash :
if that shit has not been resolved it will always come up.🤨
2026-04-14 11:13:16
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Bobbie P :
Is it brining it up or is it the same shit different story 🤷♀️
2026-04-14 17:16:42
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