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Amanda hamm :
Hang in there sweetness, I’ve been there before. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Be gentle with yourself ❤️
2026-06-18 04:23:13
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ciina🐾 :
i was like this for a while and well i had the same question, i was always searching for a meaning in life so it was a constant chase to try and find that meaning, nothing really came close to a good answer for me, until i just stopped, i stopped looking, i stoped noticing what other people were doing and thinking how it would affect me or why they thought of me or what they didn’t think, what people saw when they saw me, why was i doing what i was doing, for what purpose? i just stopped, and instead of looking i started just living in the moment, i started doing not for what i wanted people to think of me or what i thought people wanted to see of me, i was just simply doing, after a while i felt happy and i started enjoying myself again, it took a while to break out of the cycle and im not gonna lie, it took YEARS of therapy and meds and every trick in the book, i tried everything, but sometimes not every book is made for you to read, and well i stared going to the movies by myself because no one really wanted to go anyway (that used to make me sad and not want to go because what is the point if it was by myself) and it was really nice, the point wasnt anything but i wanted to go and see the movie so i did, i want to wear this outfit so i did, i wanted to post this so i did, sure i lost a lot of people and it took a lot of tries to break out of the cycle of overthinking and wanting to know what other people thought of me, how i could be what other people wanted, and honestly sometimes i still fall into that cycle but i realize that it’s just so tiring, and when i do realize what i was doing i tried and tried to go back to the other (the better for me) mentality
2026-04-26 20:51:36
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kaitmao :
i feel like once you go to college you’ll realize how it actually is: you’re supposed to join clubs and find friends and as much as people say it’s impossible to find friends in college it really isn’t
2026-04-13 03:02:25
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blond :
I don't know how to explain it, but i think it's a normal feeling when you're approaching "adulthood." I don't feel capable of giving useful advice, but i think the best thing is not to feel rushed and keep looking for the things you're passionate about, i know the feeling that everyone is moving forward except you is difficult, but we're not all the same and we need different paces. It might not work for everyone, but the anime Ikoku Nikki recently helped me a lot, Asa is the protagonist whose parents di3d in a traffic accident and now has to live with her aunt who is a novelist, i think the anime really captures that feeling of being alone or isolated, plus, Asa is 15 years old so it's easy to relate to her. Just keep trying new things and meeting new people, don't be afraid to try, and one day you'll surely find what you really want to do
2026-04-13 07:15:20
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mar :
im going through the same thing, i dropped out of in person school to do online a few years ago now and my whole life has been waking up to go to appointments and homework since then, i have no way of making friends irl and online they dont stick around for very much, ive always been told that when i get a job maybe itll help me meet people and there are also some support groups around that maybe you have in your area too where you can meet people aswell. something that sometimes helps me at least forget about the loneliness is trying to forget about the point in anything and just spending some time doing something i like, whether that be playing a game or watching a movie. maybe that will help at least until you start meeting people. im sorry you feel this way and i hope it gets better for you <3
2026-04-14 15:03:19
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tama :
i also graduated early and the burnout led me into a pit when i went into university, i think you just need to find out what you want to be, your own character, your own core values in life, what is your true purpose in life, i would always say theres no meaning in everything and truly I didn’t enjoy anything, but in the end I still had things I did in private that made me feel pleasure, like certain video games i played or reading tons of inspirational manhwa/novels, once i learned more about philosophy, ethics, and psychology, it opened my world view and let me build and understand my own character and who I am, you should take your time to do your own discovery, don’t feel pressured to rush things, I wish you luck with your own journey
2026-04-15 10:19:48
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wowyayamazing :
I understand you, i used to be very introverted, this could be something different than what i went through so it might not be as simple as what i did: I tried to change my mindset slightly and be more positive, i tried to get rid of things that made my life more upsetting, even things like sad music or other depressing things. I really had to push myself to talk to people in the beginning, i would try and go up to anyone i found interesting and compliment them. I’d introduce myself and ask for their name and try and make small talk. after that i’d ask for something like their social media to try and stay in contact. it helps to find people with common interests, i found a lot of my friends from art club.
2026-04-13 03:57:23
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abalone :
i get it kemi today i went to a college thing and talking to people felt like i was speaking to npcs… i really hope the best for you kemi cause youre super nice and im not just saying that i cant explain it but u give me hope for thr world and i think meeting you even tho we dont talk much has made me a little bit more open during my hateful edgelord era. i also want you to know you arent appearing as an edgelord at all your feelings are very real and are respectable i love you kemi
2026-04-13 03:53:37
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itcha :
I used to feel like that up until a few years after getting my uni degree and my 1st corporate job. What changed for me was finding the Austrian Economic school of thought and deciding to pursue day trading. During this time I also learned about neural language programming and how we can train our minds to interpret reality in a certain way that is more aligned with what we want to do and the skills we want to develop. Anyhow, the main thing is to learn to enjoy the process of learning and the process of pursuing goals, not to put it all on the end result.
2026-04-13 12:37:45
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🍻🐾 :
don’t have anxiety about the future, focus on now. life moves fast but you should let it be & see where it takes you, you don’t need a definite plan of the future as much as everyone likes to say so. i totally get how you feel(´- _-｀) i feel so lonely but it’s hard to connect with people. you should remember that you can have goals that aren’t a huge achievement or expectations just something personal that might make you happy. it’s okay to be the way you are, you don’t need a lot of friends or a busy life, i think you have a hard time accepting yourself kemi, but no matter what i am here
2026-04-13 18:10:13
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isabella :
honestly sometimes u gotta fake it till u make it cuz i used to be hella introverted but basically forced myself to be extroverted which helped me put myself out there more! just know u aren’t alone in this and that there is a whole world out there for u to see!
2026-04-16 22:25:47
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mrgungus :
I love you
2026-04-13 19:52:56
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clarebear :
To meet people especially with summer coming up I’d recommend finding open gyms for any sports you’d be interested in if there’s any nearby. Me and others I know play volleyball and at open gyms I’ve been able to socialize and make friends.
2026-04-15 16:11:18
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Icyy :
When I was around 16 I also had that feeling of emptiness i suppose. All I did was go to school and then work and go to sleep. It was a very empty cycle for me ever since the girl I kinda loved had to leave. I found little to no joy in school or work or home most of the time and had no money aswell. I suppose I got tired of it all and joined the army ng and found other hobbies to be more filled in life but I would suggest to find some anchors wherever they may be and hold on to them.
2026-04-14 22:11:30
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sovietcookiee :
fortnite
2026-04-13 12:45:23
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cdrsunray :
It depends really. As corny as it sounds, life is what you make it. I’m still horribly introverted in college so I’m graduating with few friends. However, I dropped the notion that it’s personally a bad thing. I think I enjoy it, solitary isn’t terrible. It’s just my preference. I have a path I want to take my future but socially I don’t mind it being this quiet. I can’t tell you what the thorough thought process is because it just clicked one day. “I don’t really mind.” Also like a few other people said, it’s not a bad thing to reach out to other people through social media. Jumping over that small moment of self-embarrassment is almost always worth it.
2026-04-15 11:36:47
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✧ :
i feel 🥀
2026-04-13 06:59:05
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benji :
just focus on being yourself son
2026-04-14 12:58:16
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starlite_cowboi :
you have hobbies and opinions. you get to go to college. if you are brave enough to pursue those things earnestly, you will come across like-minded people. my best friends are all from college. and I'm not a super outgoing person.
2026-04-13 23:24:45
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Rekato :
just go with the flow and feel the moment
2026-04-13 12:00:45
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Manae :
Don’t worry you’re not alone and I am in the same boat. I’m in grade 11 right now with terrible grades and don’t know where I want to go in life but I try to only worry another the present. This might sound kind of crazy but what has helped me the most is my favourite movie called, perfect days. It’s about an older man who lives his life in simplicity and it gives me a huge sense of comfort. I highly recommend you watch it
2026-04-13 03:08:24
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user6950093164636 :
I like to think that loneliness is temporary and sure it will hurt, but it means you're in the wrong place. you're going to college soon, so that's a change, and you'll experience things you never thought you would. it's scary to think about the future, but it's also pointless because tomorrow is unexpected and not guaranteed. live life today, and then tomorrow might be better, or it could be worse, but it can't always be worse. you seem pretty cool so I think it won't be hard at all for you to find friends. but best of luck to you! the world is full of infinite people, and more will come. just wait
2026-04-15 00:17:33
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fishly_ :
I’ve had a pretty bad life and I’ve always been pretty empty inside but I looked at things I liked like music, nature, and video games, and I tried ALOT of stuff that aligns with those things. I started playing guitar with 2 friends and it genuinely changed everything about my life it led to a lot of new relationships and now all I think about is improving at the things I love and it makes me feel full even though all my friends are online after I started college this year. So id recommend finding something you can put your heart and soul into that allows you to express your deepest emotions and you’ll find connections through it sorry if this didn’t help but i really recommend just doing random shit on the off chance it brings you peace. Also never not reach out to people if you get really sad it so much easier to talk to people about things then it appears
2026-04-14 04:16:09
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Ethan :
My tip is just to talk with others about how you feel. Whether it’s your parents, family members, friends or even doctors or therapists. You’re not alone in feeling this way. I don’t know you or what your life has been like up until this point but don’t give up on yourself. Joy comes and goes but what matters most is that you believe in yourself. Please don’t be afraid to let others know how you feel. You don’t have to say everything, but make the effort to share with those around you.
2026-04-13 16:46:19
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Kaleb.Marpe :
i really hope u find what u need, and live your best life
2026-04-13 03:48:13
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