@c_cirks: The realities of dating with cancer💔 #cancer #livingwithcancer #stage4cancer #dating #lungcancer

lobautumny01 :

Ugh that sucks I’m sorry. But why are we thinking about dating during a battle with cancer…that’s alot to put in someone. Just heal hun❤️

PinkHairDepression :

You don’t owe anyone the announcement that you have cancer. Be you and date.

Noah Whited :

Keep your head up, Clara! Your mom is right, it will not matter to the right person. You’re not alone and you will find that person one day. Just keep being yourself and don’t apologize for venting your feelings. It’s important to get your emotions out and this video will help someone who feels they’re alone.

Lizzy :

Focus on yourself and your treatment

Dr. Hannah, MD :

I am so sorry this happened! This is one of my greatest fears when I decide to try to start dating again post-cancer. I am so proud of you for putting yourself out there. I feel like its going to be a long time before I have the confidence to go on a date again. It just sucks because having cancer is already hard enough. Getting rejected because of it is the cherry on top

sierostyle :

NEXTTTT 👋👋👋 this is not your fault and you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. There will be someone amazing that will come along that will love us for all we have been through and continue to go through!! I agree with your mom 100% but I totally understand where you are coming from and how you feel ❤️❤️❤️

Stage4.Stunna ✨✨ :

I'll be the one to say it. You are not alone girl, I'm glad I came across your video. For the longest time I thought I was the only person having these thoughts. It's unfortunately very lonely when you're dealing with cancer especially when all your friends have a partner. It would be awesome to connect with you on how things are going from one stage4 girly to another #Wegotthis #letsnotlosehope

Mary :

I think you should have mentioned it and told him you’re doing okay.

Mary Ellen Moire :

boy do I wish I lived near you. you seem like a wonderful wonderful woman. people are shallow. that's the world we live in. I'm going to follow you. you are genuine, too many fake criers on this app. your pain is real. I have metastatic stage 4 uterine sarcoma and receiving targeted therapy. I would love to share with you. keep your head up.

sparkleweasel5 :

Cancer is so unfair!!! Some people can’t handle something like this, but I promise some people can! You will find your person!

Frangrid :

It’s the timing too. It is a really hard thing to balance, if you talk about it too soon you scare them off and if you don’t then it’s the “why didn’t you tell me sooner? “ Maybe there is a better time? Like on the 5th or 6th date? I don’t know. It’s tough.

Angela :

Wondering if you’ve joined any support groups online… my friend met the love of her life / her now husband while she was battling cancer - but he also had cancer at the time. They are both survivors now… I would see if you can find a cancer survivor or someone else who can relate somehow. You might need a fellow warrior to feel seen and heard and understood! I hope you find the love you so deserve ♥️

Ale :

Don’t feel sad, he was a fng immature. You are a gorgeous intelligent person. You will find the perfect man. Don’t rush don’t stop. Just keep on going!!!

TwoBlack :

Should’ve given him some time to process it but I get your feelings about it. Like your dad said, going forward you should let them know beforehand to avoid this.

gettinggonegirl :

Hey Clara…I’m sorry that happened. That sucks.

chel v :

I’m so sorry this happened. Your feelings are beyond valid. You have such an understanding perspective and he was too immature to even try to have a conversation about what that means for dating. I agree with your mom completely, but know it is hard to stay positive. Please don’t lose your light. I think you being vulnerable but also continuing to live the life you want is going to inspire others more than you know.

Ana Stasia :

I cried with you too

averyhoover :

It’s completely valid to want someone to see you for you, and not just cancer. Because you are a person beyond cancer. I’m so sorry this happened to you.

msq :

Some people cannot handle the heavy stuff. Better to find out ahead of time. It sucks either way.🥰

mr_._714 :

Disregard ANYONE who is telling you to “focus on your treatment”. You are entitled to live a WHOLE life before, during, and after treatment. I say this as a survivor who struggled through two types of nhl and still live day by day.

camille059035 :

Lord please send someone for her, you making me cry

Zoyiiiii :

I feel your pain I am in the same boat 😭😭 my soul cry with ur sister 💕😭

Rose Jergens | Living w Cancer :

Elianis :

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I am also going through my cancer journey. I was married and I had to file for divorce. My husband completely ignored my emotional needs. It was almost as if I were married to a complete stranger. Surrender to God, that's what I did, and it is the best decision I've ever made.

Caitlin :

Girl I just got diagnosed and I just think focusing on yourself during cancer is the best option, I know it’s lonely, but remember God must isolate you to elevate you. Find a nice friend and maybe it will