Sharay
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Janeith Ward, Esq. :
My ex-husband complained about the smell of bacon in the home and didn't want me making it. I did not cook bacon for years. So the day after I left, I bought a pack of bacon, cooked the whole thing, and sat and ate it all in a day. That was a terrible idea and almost made me sick 😂. And I even realized that I didn't like bacon THAT much. But I was basking in the knowledge that I could do whatever I wanted in my home, and there was no one there to complain about it.
2026-04-14 10:05:30
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Mvalentine🍓 :
I moved in with my family for a while. I had a 1 year old and I didn’t realize how exhausted, unloved and unsupported I felt. It was healing to be with them. I actually got to rest and heal and get back into shape. And I had actual help!
2026-04-13 19:21:57
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Bee :
I went back to school 🥰 got my first degree working on my second then law school 🥳
2026-04-13 11:48:02
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coffeehabibi :
Removed instagram off my phone so I didn’t feel the need to keep up with my old life. Started going to a Pilates studio and trying other new hobbies like aerial yoga and creating art and music playlists to heal me 🥰
2026-04-13 21:10:12
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Laura Lupercio :
Gym time, I started skiing ⛷️, I agree with appearance it’s very important to me also, talk to my friends and family and last thing I enrolled myself in a beauty pageant! 👑
2026-04-15 06:25:50
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thefitmomformula :
THANK YOU FOR SAYING IT’S OKAY TO CARE ABOUT YOUR APPEARANCE! Even being vain…. IS OK!!
2026-04-13 23:53:51
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IllyM 🇵🇷🇲🇽🫶💙 :
I sit in silence a lot. It is so comforting. I journal. I found some ladies online and do an event with them each month. I am also planning a trip solo to Portugal and Spain. I read the Bible.
2026-04-14 10:30:53
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MODERN MYST METAPHYSICAL⚡️ :
I GOT REST. When I tell you I healed my nervous system I was so happy to not be on edge. I remember when I heard my own genuine laugh, not covered in sadness. Thank God it is over!
2026-04-15 19:31:20
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discodeva66 :
He wouldn’t go with me anywhere. So 2006 I took my first solo trip (without him and daughters) went to Rome and Greece (in a tour group) but even then I felt guilty and didn’t enjoy the entire trip. Always wondering why he wouldn’t come with me. Eventually as I found out he had a mistress she confessed all the places they went to and how well he treated her and he was the best thing in her life. Omg. We are divorced.
2026-04-13 04:36:53
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chan_denae :
I fell out of love before I left . I’m not scared to start over . I’m actually in the process of starting over now and … I’m excited to relearn my true self
2026-04-15 04:06:48
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wadiah4805 :
A mix of things- faith , therapy, self care and travel
2026-04-13 09:07:17
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User888 :
God, therapy, self love, investing in my whims (travel, hammock, nerf gun), started bodybuilding, learned about make-up skin care, learned guitar, built network of friends some of whom had been divorced,went on trips, created a coaching business, leaned into starting over …my Do-over. 🥰
2026-04-13 19:04:34
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Sar 💙♑️ :
I’m 2 years separated (hoping divorce is final soon). Therapy + gym + new friendships + new hobbies have changed my life. Self care is consistent. I read more, I relax more. My house is cleaner. It’s amazing how I once felt like divorce would be the end of me but it turns out I’m finally able to be me for the first time in my adult life.
2026-04-13 16:11:34
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OfficiallyGia :
Prayer and fasting and working out.
2026-04-14 23:13:23
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Shanel :
I fixed my teeth started taking myself on vacations starting to get my hair, nails, and pedicures. I had the best mother’s day last year I went out the country for the first time. Best decision I ever made I have been enjoying my life! I never did this while was committed to him.
2026-04-14 03:14:19
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Samantha-Love :
Currently in the middle of a divorce n u right af
2026-04-14 16:04:55
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Ms. Voltaire | Content Creator :
Moments of silence are the best!!!!! I remember a Friday night I ordered food and ate in the bed and ate in silence and didn’t have to worry about dinner for someone else 🤣😂 I enjoyed every second
2026-04-15 23:24:00
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DailyDoseOfGrace :
Agreed on appearance! I never wanna look like what I been through. If I look good, I feel so much better!!
2026-04-15 13:19:10
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cocohontis_ :
Yesss maam!! Mines was music festivals lol but Journaling! Blogging! Travel!! Heavy on the keeping yourself up!! All the above!!
2026-04-16 17:56:37
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June :
Currently going through a divorce. I packed my things and took my dog. I am now living with my best friend and her husband. Being in a new state is hard.
2026-04-15 18:44:00
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@306321 :
Thank you sis🫂🩷
2026-04-14 22:44:58
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xo_leauxxx :
Always having something to look forward to. Live podcasts. Concerts. Travel. Side quests to learn a new skill. 10 mins of tea and silence in the morning to regulate my emotion and set my intention for the day.
2026-04-15 00:55:12
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obiggs6 :
I am in the midst of a 21 year Marriage 30 plus year relationship, ending i. divorce. I love the advice of self care involving doing "whatever the F**k I want" Im totally on that! thanks for being here! 🥰
2026-04-18 16:54:07
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Life_23! :
I took a girls trip. I had not taken one in 10 years while married. I let my hair down and partied in Miami for my 44th. I became addicted to the gym again and fell in love with myself all over again. Most importantly, I regained my sense of worth and pride, and remembered who I was again. 🙌🏾
2026-04-14 14:38:33
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slimmbe :
Freshly new here and I have to follow and go through videos
2026-04-13 21:50:58
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