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Lakota Wilson :
I thought it was just because I don’t care what they think of me
2026-04-14 07:44:29
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Kwakhanya :
I unmask because I do not care what they perceive me as
2026-04-14 11:05:16
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itsaarushiw :
thank u for fixing this shame for me 😭
2026-04-14 12:26:35
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danielle :
I just don’t care what they think so I will act however I want
2026-04-14 18:52:24
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Robyn :
It’s so much easier to be neurodivergent around men.
2026-06-10 02:53:43
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kim_pk26 :
I feel like this was different for me as a kid, but very true as an adult
2026-04-14 07:48:44
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Neema :
I feel so validated
2026-04-14 22:55:00
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Siobhan ✨ our AuDHD life :
Girls are harder. They hate me.
2026-06-07 23:16:37
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Luz :
I was so ashamed of my "pick me" era in my early 20s. This makes me feel better
2026-04-16 11:57:59
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your friend from another life :
I knew it, I thought I just loved collecting pokemon cards and videogames as a kid
2026-04-14 02:14:55
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eriwithan_n :
Definitely true for me in high school. And then they fall in love with you bc “you’re not like any girl they’ve ever met” and you cry bc you just want to be a little weirdo without expectations. 😅
2026-06-04 13:02:54
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Can anyone help me to figure out if it’s just me being a bitch who’s only generous with herself or it’s actually more complicated? i am a 18yo neurodivergent woman who’s always had male friends more than female friends for my entire life but i’ve always wished to have a female bestie which never happened without being talked shit about, even all the female friends that i genuinely felt connected to were all online friends, well most of my male friends that i had in middle school have told me they really feel like i am a guy (i even had two block haircut, always wore a mask and baggy outfits at the moment) and got along with me, i think it’s not just only about masking as a neurodivergent but also that my personality traits are like tomboyish? Or it’s just related to my disorders idk 😭😭 for example i am blunt (altho i regret after saying a word), energetic, adventurous, rough and uh i speak like a man in my native language too (a lot of people from my country on the internet think i am a man) and now i have a bf but he’s like… neurotypical, straight asf, also pretty insensitive yk? He never talks to women, he has no female friends irl (i mean he has some online friends that he met on a dating app) his class doesn’t have women either so i know when he starts talking to a woman or hangs out with one it is uh not common right? And i get like not upset with him but maybe nervous about the fact that something uncommon that i can’t control is happening and end up overthinking he might leave me, but when i tell him that i feel really nervous and jealous of the female friends that he talks to bc i needed reassurance, he says “why can’t i talk to my friends? You have many guy friends too, even more than the female friends that i have” and… idk bruh like i’ve been raised around boys and he understands that i feel more comfortable with guys, i hang out with HIS friends as well like im in the fg actually… but i know he doesn’t usually talk to girls and he’s introverted too while i am 100% extroverted so i genuinely don’t know if it’s something i should stfu bc i have no right to complain since i have many guy friends or i at least have a right to ask him for reassurance
2026-05-06 06:51:48
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Trinity k 🕺🏻 :
I care WAY more about how I seem around girls so I get so nervous. Not men tho idc
2026-06-11 19:19:50
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alyssa :) :
woah… this makes so much sense
2026-06-05 01:55:29
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Cynthia :
It's also hard because we care more of what women will think of us, like people already mentionned here. But like she said in video, women judge us harder unfortunately. If you're not like other girls or you’re weird you’re gonna be left out
2026-06-11 00:46:05
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Regan :
Because in high school if I slightly unmasked or revealed anything about my personal interests, the girls looked at me with disgust where the boys sometimes actually thought it was cool and engaged in conversation
2026-06-03 21:13:40
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noplans_justvibes :
Thank you ! I couldn’t figure out what the hell my problem was
2026-04-16 21:13:53
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Unmedicatedadhdgirlie :
I only have female neurodivergent people as close friends and any guy can be my friends because I choose the ones that don’t mind hearing me yap and idgaf what they think 😊
2026-04-15 00:11:48
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Eurus Holmes :
its bc idc what they think of me but I want women to love me
2026-06-02 12:48:24
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vale :
pls share the paper!💖
2026-05-30 17:10:42
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Lynne :
Omg Ily thank you. You’ve literally resolved my inner battle of overthinking if I’m a bitch despite knowing my heart. This brings me sm peace tyy😭💗
2026-04-15 21:25:22
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🦇lli :
I find it harder 😭
2026-04-16 06:01:07
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tashboot :
This has made sense of my entire life
2026-05-01 00:38:29
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punkandcircumstance :
Thank you for sharing this 😭
2026-04-14 01:22:54
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elissahand :
OMG. this is so helpful
2026-04-14 04:00:13
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