@therealniccoy: Why do some people always ruin your big moments? If someone always ruins your big moments… It’s a pattern. Birthdays, Promotions, and Celebrations that are supposed to be about you— suddenly become about them. And if you’re empathetic? You’ll shrink your moment to keep the peace. That’s how self-abandonment gets reinforced. Let’s be clear: The right people don’t compete with your joy. They expand it. So stop dimming your light for people who need you small to feel comfortable. #narcissist #Relationship #boundarysetting #selflove #traumarecovery
It’s insane how close I came to skipping The Hidden Life Code by Mason Beckerman. This isn’t just another book. It genuinely feels like something that was never meant to reach the public.
2026-04-13 21:28:27
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dralicericehouse :
Oh, my mom.
2026-04-13 16:20:34
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Muhammed Sümer :
why are u giving all answers to my questions?
2026-04-13 16:44:58
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mynewmbs :
My big moments are never celebrated. Then after it sounds like “ oh we didn’t know…why didn’t you say something?” It becomes implied I like being hard done by
2026-06-10 12:57:02
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Audrey Palomarez :
At 52. I am doing things for me finally. Whatever that is, because I never have. Even if its alone. ❤️🥰
2026-04-13 16:41:00
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🫧 Vanessa 🫧 :
Ouff.. yeah…
2026-04-13 19:36:18
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Kirsty Hoyer :
When you are married to it, it is difficult. Took me years to free myself and my children from it. Holidays were horrible
2026-04-23 02:49:18
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Laura Healey143 :
Omg!!! This IS a thing!!!! I’m not losing it!
2026-04-15 22:24:21
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Lady P :
I don’t really care what you are saying , I stumbled upon you a few days ago and you are SPECTACULARLY so good 😊
2026-04-13 16:09:57
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Sunny :
I'm intimately familiar with this pattern to the degree of fearing success. Fun times.
2026-04-13 17:45:37
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soft_life_Glow :
awareness is key 🔑
2026-04-15 02:47:53
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Judith Carbajo485 :
sabio! excelente!!!
2026-04-17 03:23:28
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Callie 🌙 Starlit Reader :
My mum does something a bit like that - if I experience something, she makes it about her.
2026-04-13 16:15:08
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LaVaughn :
my mother! everything has to be about her!
2026-04-14 03:38:00
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Mane R :
Harry Potter every movie
2026-04-13 20:43:05
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Sebastian :
that's why I like to enjoy my moments alone😂
2026-04-13 18:29:07
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FCK ur Feelings! :
Ur awesome chica! Enjoy ur posts👍
2026-05-04 04:14:21
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kevin :
yep.
2026-04-14 14:51:44
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Jamie :
My husband does this. Or if I’m in a great mood, he always finds a reason to ruin it
2026-04-13 16:45:33
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Jo Jo M :
Amen 💯
2026-04-14 19:05:26
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bobbydildine :
Just wow
2026-04-14 21:48:45
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Jen :
love it 🥰
2026-04-13 21:14:49
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Deb💜 :
Seriously, if you haven’t read The Reflection You Never Faced by Emma Vale yet, what are you even doing? It’s a total game changer
2026-04-14 07:36:12
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DabDad :
it’s only taken me 61 years to finally learn this lesson. I am not responsible for your emotions. I still try to be empathetic, but I do not allow myself to be empathetic to the point of harming myself.
2026-05-24 03:30:46
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Colleen :
Omlord…you have crazy powers. I’ve experienced this sooo many times. But pushing 60, I finally get it. I’ve started handling those situations differently. A bit late to the game, but finally there.
2026-05-05 19:11:42
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