I’m not angry at her at all I just want to understand
2026-05-01 01:18:25
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Sarah🧸 :
i literally just went through this last week, i asked other people what i should do to try to save the friendship. i wasn’t talking badly about her at all- i just wanted to know if i needed to try to save it. is that wrong?
2026-05-17 11:54:07
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Mona :
Validation from others.
2026-04-23 20:06:54
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𝓜𝓲𝓼𝓼 :
sometimes this depends on the person as confrontation would potentially make it worse, if the individual is overly-reactive, or if they're someone who refuses to see/accept accountability. It's not always so cut & dry. Sometimes, I've had to point the finger at myself and ask why they felt uncomfortable enough to not discuss it with me and lent the ears of others. It's not always about validation or complaining.
2026-05-07 04:51:08
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jime123 :
so me and my bestfriend of like 7 years got in a fight because she got angry I was talking to this other girl like I treated them both the same and then she got angry and well ignored me and basically I didnt say sorry or anything cause I asked others if it was OK for someone to get angry at someone if they talked to someone else and well they said dont apologize if you didnt do anything and so I didnt apologize and then basically after like 2 days she send me a text saying ok ima text you because you cant text me first and well then she said I didnt say sorry when she says sorry when I get angry and like that and then she brought up a time like a long time ago when me the that one girl I was talking to invited me to the movies but didnt invite my bestfriend so I went and then my bff didnt go but keep in mind I said you can come we can all hang out I asked the other girl if it was OK and she said yeah and well still my bff said she didnt wanna be a third wheel. and like I was saying she brought that up in that fight and then she kept bringing moment up until I apologized but after that she acted weird and started talking to this other girl and I saw her whispering to that girl and the girl blurted out to me your so fake and then my bff didnt say anything and then they kept whispering for a long time after that and keep in mind I know my bff was talking shit about the girl I was talking to and me like me and so basically it went on for a while and then she started acting normal again but either way she still whispers to that girl and I know it aint nothing good and well after that she told me she hated the girl I was talking to so I told her I wanna be friends with both of you ok I dont wanna lose any of you and well after that I was talking to the girl and my bff tried to steal my attention from the girl and well I cant talk with both. and well finally after what felt forever I got mad at her and told her it wasn't ok for her to do that and now she acts normal and talks with the girl but now she still whispers with the other girl and hangs out with other friends more and I feel like she talks bad about me and well. also keep in mind ever since I met her she lies
2026-05-18 05:15:00
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bcs i tried explaining once and except not changing a thing they tried to point the finger at me instead without context
2026-05-15 23:01:19
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cmc :
My experiences taught me that confronting people results in them putting up a wall, deflecting, or straight up getting angry. I need to grow out of that, I know, but I don’t know how
2026-05-12 02:16:53
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linamaneshh :
People who want solutions talk to you. People who want validation talk about you.
2026-06-10 19:25:30
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salt.sand.shells :
Seriously though! How can we move past it if you don’t speak to me about it!
2026-04-26 13:13:53
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LeaRa :
this 😂😂 don't even know what is THE problem
2026-05-06 13:24:55
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~{н★стя}~ :
Because sometimes you have to sort it out in your head to think clearer and sometimes other perspectives help to do that. After that I will definitely talk it out with the person but you don’t just jump into something when everything might be chaos
2026-05-20 13:58:28
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Hannah Ince :
Silent repost because THIS!!
2026-05-05 18:45:27
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Rim :
Silent repost 👀 lol
2026-05-16 01:07:16
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tee :
I just experience this. That's so annoying
2026-04-27 17:58:24
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karriganbabin :
IF I CAN DOUBLE REPOST THIIISSS
2026-04-28 03:20:23
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DakotaLynn :
Periodttt
2026-04-26 02:36:51
6
lolitslillysspamm :
😂 literally
2026-04-16 22:38:42
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Val Bailon :
LOUD REPOST
2026-04-28 03:35:47
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cathy ✞⋆. 𐙚 ̊🩷 :
There are a lot of reasons, they may want emotional support first, afraid of conflict, they might think it won’t change anything, may seek validation, they don’t know how to start that type of conversation, they prefer to vent. They aren’t inherently bad ppl tho
2026-07-08 17:54:32
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🐬𝑨𝒎𝒚𝒚🦄 :
Like if you're angry at me, just say it do I can improve..
2026-05-11 22:32:41
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deactivem06 :
My biggest mistake was not talking to her about how I felt instead I talked to someone else about it. I’ve learned so many lessons in friendship. I now know what a friendship should look like on both sides. I truly wish the best for her and hope she forgives me. Time will only tell but until then I hope I make more friends along the way, people I trust and people who trust me.
2026-05-09 16:55:30
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reeniegenie💐📣 :
ok i still do that but she is still doing that
2026-05-15 10:39:48
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Chase :
Yeah but if we did some people would turn it against me make it sound like im the problem.
2026-05-09 05:27:17
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momliferunclub :
That part
2026-05-16 02:26:31
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Alison :
No frrrrrrrr
2026-05-03 18:59:57
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