After multiple loops, I asked for space! It took absolutely everything in my soul to do so but, after 5 days of no contact, my FA reached out. I did my best to be as chill as possible and focus on my own peace. In an odd twist, she was showing signs of anxious attachment. I received a half a dozen messages back to back. Of course I ended up responding... I know my worth but sometimes I go on sale 😬
We'll see how it goes 🤞
2026-04-14 17:37:11
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user6785468996 :
once you realise the pattern it becomes sooooo easy to stop playing your part tbh
2026-04-13 16:38:22
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Magnacious :
We got to the seven month mark after being casual and she confessed real feelings. She said she has seen potential for a while, she’s craving more and thought about how compatible we’d be. I told her I was feeling the same way. she said she’s not ready for a relationship because she’s jumped into things in the past when she’s felt deprived, and she has attachment/ detachment issues, and tons of things to work on. She’s also told me she’s an avoidant. She pulled back shortly after. This was two months ago and over the last two months She’s been texting me here and there, and finally two weeks ago I had an enough and stopped texting her. We haven’t spoken in two weeks and it’s killing me.
2026-04-13 23:42:46
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itscbrownx :
Oof this . I tend to bridge the gap when HE was the one in the wrong . This time I’m letting the quietness echo :/
2026-04-14 14:06:28
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💣 🧨 💥 Denny 💥 🧨 💣 :
Leave them and never look back.
2026-04-14 01:52:25
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passiflora484 :
For everyone in the comments: I’m a FA, I won’t be in a situationship with someone I want to be in a relationship with. I can be miserable in the relationship, but I would prefer it to a situationship. Don’t lose your precious time.
2026-04-16 18:01:51
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M3L3RB3 :
I’m an FA that leans dismissive, and have dated another FA on and off and it’s a nightmare. However, it has helped me identify and heal parts within me that I’ve struggled with. It’s all trauma based, and never personal… but awareness and healing is key.
2026-04-28 14:52:59
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CTR :
I walked away after a year of push and pull and me trying everything to make it work and for him not to push me away again. Walked away after the last discard and told him to stay away from me and blocked him
2026-04-13 19:37:52
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Siethiumn Ohu :
i want to talk with someone who understands FA because i want to know exactly what does it mean after alllll these things
2026-04-14 16:34:44
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CG :
Done that, they still don’t care. The next day
2026-04-14 07:12:04
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Emeka | Emotional Intelligence :
We all just need to work on becoming secure
2026-04-14 17:28:01
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Sol ☀️ :
Then how the hell I do something different if all I wanna do is see him again?😩
2026-05-13 22:26:50
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Adam Ames :
I’ve thought of this but never know how to word it?
2026-04-26 13:45:37
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lisa :
I’m in the process of breaking this pattern but I don’t see any change as of yet.
2026-04-13 17:49:48
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Laye Okoh :
Okay that’s what I’m doing, I told him yea as we got back tg we are dating now this isn’t you deciding to be with me so all dating rules of monogamy and all follows
2026-04-23 19:30:47
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Emily Orenstein :
Help
2026-04-28 01:18:24
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Starshinelove :
Help
2026-04-23 02:05:04
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Cat😸 :
help
2026-05-01 03:31:00
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Ren19003840 :
Help
2026-05-17 04:43:11
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stories.by.katie :
Help
2026-04-16 21:56:42
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Niki.Luken19 :
Help
2026-04-15 18:30:01
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dodee8305 :
What happens when you walk away and not the fearful avoidant?
2026-04-15 14:58:24
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Corey 🇨🇦 :
I wouldn’t say no to help
2026-04-15 01:56:55
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STOfarms :
Help
2026-04-13 21:46:01
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