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If this is a consistent issue no matter big or small, to where it seems like he never sees what you’re point is or is thinking about it logically rather than emotionally (how it might’ve been show the situation made you FEEL regardless of the facts behind it,) you need to communicate with him. I know it’s redundant and you see/hear it all the time and it feels like no progress is made if you have tried—but it’s the biggest truth out there. If he is truly the person that is meant for you and that WANTS the relationship good and bad then he will listen, and try his hardest to understand it (he may not end up understanding in the end, but you’ll KNOW he’s trying, it will 100% show.) to the best he can. But if he doesn’t, it’s not up to you to force him. You can only explain yourself so many ways, avenues and times. You can lead a horse to water but you can’t force him to drink. I’m holding your hand when I say this but if he’s meant for you, it will work out. If he isnt, than it was one of many lessons of your life that lead you to who YOU are meant to be..not the person you’re going to end up with forever, but who you are deep in your soul. Take every day as an experience, what did you learn about the world today? What about yourself? What’s something you did that YOU enjoy? Everything is made up moment by moment, today is tomorrow, tomorrow is yesterday. Everyday is a new chance at happiness, even if it’s for a short minute. It’s all moments. If he is meant for you, you two WILL work out. Communicate, rationalize, be present—But don’t force something that isnt meant to happen, be understood, be explained, etc, it will only put negative energy out there and drive a wedge—and I know I’m a stranger, I don’t have any business in saying or giving any advice on something I know absolutely nothing about, but this is all my personal experience. I just had a shitshow yesterday that melted all the way into this morning with my current boyfriend over things that happened with past relationships. And communication or lack there or was a big part in why it went south the way it did. But when I sat back and took the situation itself out of the picture, and just strictly—
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