@josbokhoven: believe me, it is SO EASY to say things that you never plan to follow through with. throwing out random consequences if a kid doesn’t stop what they’re doing, or making an empty promise to try and flip behavior around. it is SO DANGEROUS!! kids are smart and they know when you don’t mean what you say. the easiest way to build trust is to FOLLOW THROUGH. so think hard about what you say and always follow through! i promise it will help in the long run! #nanny #nannylife #childpsychology #consequences #tips