You & Surrounding
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Raia Briell :
An avoidant will make you become avoidant
2026-04-15 15:16:30
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MorSunshine :
This isn’t the most accurate dipiction imo. Most of the time ppl aren’t even anxiously attached, they just want a healthy relationship while the avoidant wants the benefits of a relationship without the responsibilities of one. That’s been my experience
2026-04-18 18:47:08
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حياة آمال ✨ :
Avoidant actually taught me a lot about myself. I interacted when interaction made sense, but I stopped emotionally dumping on him and stopped making him the center of my world. I started hanging out with my friends, doing my own thing, pouring into myself… and funny enough, that’s when he slowly started coming around more. Sometimes pulling your energy back teaches you where you’ve been abandoning yourself.
2026-05-08 17:46:19
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ASHLEY RAYN :
HE WANTED ME FIRST
2026-04-26 20:15:27
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✨🌈SammStarr🌈✨ :
Can the cartoons stop flopping and flapping 😅😩
2026-04-14 02:11:39
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Grief.journal1528 :
Anxious just sounds like someone who want progression in their relationship. They want consistency, communication and quality time. To look your best, change a negative behavior for. Learn new things and want to build a new skill set for that person. Isn’t life about growth? Not staying stagnant?
2026-04-25 11:54:00
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Sami Jones🇦🇺 :
An avoidant can make a secure person anxious.
2026-05-06 02:53:52
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nkaay :
This is my marriage and I’m considering a divorce after 2 years. Loving an avoidant is just too hard for someone like me
2026-05-04 11:10:45
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Irene :
Maybe the avoidant one loves the anxious in the capacity they’re able to, but compared to the anxious one’s love, it’s a surface level love. It doesn’t feel like love. I just feels like they are content with you, but not very invested in knowing you deeply.
2026-04-16 19:06:34
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JenniferSu :
Sorry but no, the avoidant doesn't love, he uses. It is the anxious that loves.
2026-05-13 02:31:39
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Steph at :
Meet in the middle? That’s impossible when the other one just avoids tough conversations or doesn’t want to sit with the hard feelings with you.. 🤦🏻♀️
2026-04-22 00:28:32
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Sierrakai :
one will show you what it’s like to be loved. the other will teach you to love yourself
2026-05-14 10:41:31
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catt0bekittenme :
Idk what’s scary about reassurance
2026-05-23 16:15:14
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Han :
I hate watching this. I’m the anxious one.
2026-04-20 21:05:52
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Harley 👁🫦👁 :
Being the anxious one sucks
2026-05-10 18:46:30
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zane_4est :
I hope someone takes this comment seriously, but I already know that you’ve seen multiple videos on relationships tonight. And you need to realize that every single person has a multitude of problems and strengths and every person has a mix of all the videos you’ve seen tonight. A single video doesn’t describe your relationship, every person has an incredibly different mind and personality that blends in all of the videos you’ve seen or will see later. Just try to keep in mind that everyone has there own life and has grown up completely differently then you making them experience situations differently then you would and handle them differently from you. Before you think “wow this fits me and my relationship so well” it doesn’t, your partner is more complex than you think.
2026-05-19 09:42:49
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Teesaysso :
didnt need a biography of my love life but thanks x
2026-05-04 06:03:52
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laura :
Ugh the fact they can forget about their partner is WILD
2026-04-15 14:24:31
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𝒦𝓎𝑜𝓂𝒾 ❀ :
Just walk away all this is not even worth the emotional distress and damage.
2026-05-06 20:24:48
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niuwdi :
i wish i were an avoidant
2026-05-07 15:33:36
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Travis Jones :
anxious is always right.
2026-05-01 17:04:02
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Ninitheg :
That animation made me anxious
2026-04-21 00:04:40
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Imnoya :
my realtionship explainednin 2minutes 😭
2026-04-14 23:06:44
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Cyn :
Little by little the anxious becomes an avoidant for staying long on avoidant who isn’t willing to compromise.
2026-05-03 10:46:42
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tara.the.terror29 :
I have always been secure…until I met an avoidant. Still not fully anxious but I do get triggered.
2026-04-16 03:03:21
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