@marstonghefner: Notes when I was in Tokyo... My neurodivergent mind has some concrete ways to make this happen! No more cold plunges, too painful! Making this novel im writing more personal. And finally, leaving my house when I am writing or building my creative portfolio. When I lived in Tokyo I always went to the cafe to write and hang, im making a promise to myself to do that. And oh, i almost forgot! I will definitely be studying Japanese again when Im working. I simply miss having a confident understanding of this beautiful culture and people. 🇯🇵🇺🇸🤎
It sounds like maybe you’re sacrificing parts of Yourself for others. It’s a thankless position to take. You are not obligated to be anyone’s “savior”. Just mho
2026-05-19 13:48:42
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Lauren :
My daughter and her husband live in Okinawa. He’s a marine.
2026-05-14 12:20:59
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KathySRW🇺🇸 🗽 :
Those all sound like healthy choices.
2026-05-15 13:45:58
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Lesdawnn17 :
Have you ever given much thought as to why you worry about what others think of you it's true freedom when you don't let other peoples thoughts control you
2026-05-17 16:49:56
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Millennial :
You are such a beautiful soul. ❤️
2026-05-14 15:26:16
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B :
We see you and are proud of you. Go do your thing! ✨
2026-04-30 18:51:52
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tori & dolly :
Tokyo always seemed so cool to visit and relaxing. 😌 so cool you got to live there
2026-04-14 08:49:58
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mrsmouse :
dude. thats a good thing
2026-04-15 01:47:59
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kbelle :
yeah life feels the most fulfilling when we live for our true selves
2026-05-16 10:00:48
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Szanczuk4lyfe :
My father wasn’t famous and I feel that way. Think too much about what other people want
2026-05-15 16:41:33
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PeroC66 :
We hear you
2026-04-14 10:30:15
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Mel :
💯 live your life for you. We can’t please everyone else all the time. We can be empathetic but we only have 1 life.
2026-05-15 09:47:57
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🎀🪞Honesteeth🪞🎀 :
We all get imposter syndrome. Just give us hope for humanity! You’re doing great! 💕👏
2026-04-28 14:31:19
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DonniHaas :
Love Japan
2026-04-15 00:36:49
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kimmie129077 :
He gets it
2026-05-14 22:46:06
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A0 :
Stay amazing, beautiful and wonderful! Do you! Proud of you!
2026-05-21 06:43:34
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Miriam Igoe :
Your a lovely kind insightful soul ✨🥰
2026-05-17 08:55:09
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Anthony C :
Just be you.
2026-05-20 00:13:33
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Washingtonrain :
It took me until I was around forty to stop people pleasing.
2026-05-19 22:53:21
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blueisme :
You're thinking too much.
2026-05-20 04:32:29
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Lala_Latebloom :
You and I have similar fathers and life paths. Archetypal roles we play are fascinating. I’m enjoying what you’re sharing here. Thank you for your authenticity. 🙏🏻
2026-06-02 15:27:20
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miss Shoe Happy :
Have a good time on your vacation do something you never did before don’t be scared just do it
2026-04-15 01:53:13
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