I only get defensive because it’s a trauma response (I am working on it so please don’t attack me) ❤️❤️
2026-04-15 05:21:47
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♡Galax/Raya♡ :
I can take constructive criticism, but if they are rude I will be defensive.
2026-04-17 19:34:38
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Amber :
OK, I’m just gonna be honest me and my cousin we we’re pretty young and I’m not joking. We would this fight dragging hair kind because I never actually started it and she was so disrespectful and rude.
2026-06-21 07:42:59
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Flapjack :
Ok but ca we normalize not giving constructive criticism of the person doesn’t ask for it
2026-04-17 05:23:57
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✨🫧Lizzie🫧✨ :
Yeah, i know can’t take criticism
2026-04-17 05:40:49
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Maddie 🎀 :
I only get defensive when people are just being judgmental without intentions of helping me become better. Like I’m sorry but if all you do is point out every little thing I do, then ofc I’ll be upset.
2026-04-15 17:17:12
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mimi🍦 :
That’s the thing, most people don’t give constructive criticism. They think they do but they don’t. You should always give criticism in a respectful and kind manner first pointing out the flaws and giving advice. Constructive criticism for most people these days is just harsh criticism which are two different things.
2026-06-11 16:23:09
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Ariana :
Oh so I'm the problem 🫠
2026-04-15 19:36:16
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justsarahscott :
i don’t do any of these and still have no friends
2026-04-15 00:12:12
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ꃳ🕊️ب♡ :
heyy! I completely get your points but I mentally can't take criticism well, I've been diagnosed and am working on it with a therapist. I used to get really pissed hen someone told me I was wrong, but I'm doing better now.
2026-04-14 17:00:30
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Noctis :
Problem is, a lot of criticism people give generally isnt constructive. People are not very good at it. But yes, I do agree generally.
2026-06-10 08:41:06
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★ :
hii, where's the highlighter from? very beautiful!
2026-04-14 16:29:12
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Redd :
I’m only ready to fight when someone becomes aggressive with me
2026-06-06 18:01:15
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saturn :
i can't receive constructive criticism because im highly sensitive,does that makes me the problem😁?
2026-05-24 07:29:47
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iza_thebomb :
My first response is to fight bc i got anger issues from my dad 😭😭
2026-04-15 16:02:08
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_•°M♡Y4°•_ :
this comment section is pmo
2026-06-08 07:12:08
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m!la. :
i want that one bitch to see this on her for you page
2026-04-15 14:21:27
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ELOHIM :
I can take constructive criticism but I will defend myself if I feel I am being disrespected
2026-06-02 15:55:28
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Devon-Louise🦋🫧 :
Again I disagree with the first one based on experience cause you can be accused of being defensive towards Constructive Criticism but most of the time the person giving the so called constructive criticism thinks they are perfect when they are far from it and don’t realise they are not constructive so that can sometimes be a two way street as well.
2026-04-14 17:29:05
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romy._macaroni :
Im sometimes the problem and i dont care
2026-04-15 08:34:46
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anastacia :
i know im the problem
2026-04-14 19:55:54
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✴️💥DYNAMIGHT💥✴️ :
I don’t get mad at destructive criticism I jst get sad😭
2026-04-15 20:19:39
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