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dear.lj :
love alone is not the sole indicator of a healthy relationship. Ayok nga kay Grottman, long-term relationship stability depends less on intensity of love and more on compatibility of emotional needs, communication patterns, and the ability to respond to each other’s bids for connection. In other words, someone can love you deeply and still be unable to love you in the way that sustains you. ++
2026-04-19 11:40:33
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Meyy :
That’s why compatibility really matters in a relationship. You can get along, share the same values, and have no big issues but still feel like something’s missing. No matter how much effort someone gives, if they can’t give what your heart is quietly looking for, mauubos talaga kayo pareho in the end. Minsan, the hardest but kindest thing you can do is to let each other go, instead of staying and slowly losing yourselves in the process. 💔
2026-04-15 14:12:58
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Lalaboo👻 :
We have different capacity in love. You have to accept hangang dun lang or hangang dun palang kaya nya ibigay (we grow differently). Sometimes if ikaw yung mas kaya mag extend ng capacity mo to love, you can choose to stay or leave. If staying means losing yourself, do you have to endure so much for love? Just to prove you are the one na MAS NAGMAHAL? We cannot control how the person will show up in a relationship but I believe you can choose what you think you deserve for yourself even if it means leaving or letting go. Sometimes the greatest act of love is not abandoning yourself and giving space for someone’s growth.
2026-06-06 06:31:50
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🐣 :
Idk but I think this is her, I mean, this is her pov. I’m really really trying my best, I’m not being hambog or what but I know I exceed bare minimum and really trying my best, emotionally, physically, her needs, wants, the loyalty, honesty, understanding her, and loving her the way she wanted to be loved and they way she deserves. But I feel like it is not enough, I really don’t know I just, I just want to love and understand stand her deeply. And if tatanungin naman, she even don’t know kung ano ba talaga ang kulang o mali.
2026-06-04 17:23:03
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prncssmich :
di ko na tinapos basahin, baka bukas maging single pa ako
2026-04-16 13:59:03
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Kristeta :
Based on my experience from a 9yr relationship, u only start to see a person’s shortcoming when u no longer love them. Because when the love is real, u accept all their flaws.
2026-04-20 15:03:13
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RYI :
im a leaver. i will leave if im given reasons to leave.
2026-04-19 19:36:25
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supahotcheetos :
did you ever ask yourself, maybe you’re the one who is lacking love within yourself? na baka you should be the one to heal the love that others can’t give? that’s why you think it’s never enough or doesn’t meet your standards, because after all, the love you need doesn’t really come from others—maybe it should come from you. maybe if you try to seek love in the future, ask yourself first: what kind of love do i really seek or am asking for?
2026-04-18 09:07:57
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ally :
this somehow make me feel seen 🥺 this is exactly what i feel right now
2026-04-22 15:11:30
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selfsabotageitself :
explains my situation, but the guilt keeps me every night. he tried, i really know he tried but i couldn't stop wondering, where is that? ansaket, kasi alam niya, pero wala siyang magawa. hindi rin naman talaga yun yung prob, he really cant try, sasabihin niya lang na ganyan na siya talaga. but people said that if you love the person, u must love their flaws, but i've change my habits for him, n to respect him but he couldn't meet me half way..and i couldnt do anything about it.
2026-04-30 14:41:48
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️drey :
Ang pagmamahal na tama para sa’yo ay hindi mo kailangang ipaglaban laban sa sarili mo.
2026-04-20 12:58:09
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pinkdumpdump :
This seems so unfair for the one's who's trying. Better to break up nga. But at the same time, I can't fail but to think, isn't the partner well aware of how you want to be loved? Or you just no longer see/want that person for you? kasi 'di ba kaya nga tayo may iba't ibang love language eh. For example, you are a fan of words of affirmations yet ur partner isn't good with words pero since mahal ka niya, he'll learn kasi that's how the other person wants to be loved eh, 'di ba? there's an adjustment out of willingness kasi una pa lang pwede magkaroon ng confusion, there will be times na kekwetyunin niya sarili niya.
2026-05-23 05:54:11
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クラリス :
I left him and i rather lose him than myself. But at some point ang hirap e, you need to stand firm sa decision mo, sa decision mong piliin ang sarili mo. Ang sakit kasi nakikita mong minamahal ka naman niya halos lahat ibigay na pero hindi mo pa rin ramdam. Hindi ka naman aalis agad din, bibigyan mo pa ng chance…marami kasi guilt ang maffeel mo at first dahil bakit ganon? pero malilinawan ka rin and idedemand mo. After i saw this post few days ago he reach out yesterday begging…again. Ang sakit kasi alam ko namang mahal niya ako, hindi ko lang ramdam.
2026-05-30 18:56:38
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loveofurlayf :
that is why learning each others love language is a must
2026-04-15 15:25:46
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🐝 :
silent repost
2026-06-06 15:59:13
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Rye :
"sometimes love just ain't enough" totoo pala talaga, akala ko...
2026-05-22 13:15:56
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user1132149776186 :
ansakit kasi nakikita mong tinatry/binibigay nila yung best nila, ang hirap umalis
2026-05-22 20:59:29
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k8 :
what if pagod ka na but at the same time hindi mo rin alam if mahal mo pa?
2026-04-21 05:06:28
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ig: mariarqz_ 𐙚⋆°｡⋆♡ :
grabe naman sa timing
2026-04-29 17:27:25
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️K :
That's why love is not just about love, it's really a choice. Would you rather leave someone bc they're not meeting your expectation? Or bec you feel something is lacking? How sure u are na if pumasok ka sa diff relationship with a diff person is masasatisfied ka sa ipaparamdam niya? Love is a lifetime work in progress and with a lots and lots of forgiveness.
2026-04-15 15:13:12
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Seya :
It’s unfair to the person who keeps trying. If you aren't satisfied, you should leave. I constantly reminded him of his promises, but he always forgot. He ended things because he was 'tired of hurting me,' but I never wanted to give up on us—I just wanted him to care enough to remember. I thought partners were supposed to grow for one another. Maybe I was being too much, or maybe I just didn't matter enough. I know I have my own flaws, too.
2026-05-03 13:01:59
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u made a deal with this devil :
inaano ba kita te
2026-04-27 10:24:04
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aaron :
This sounds more like emotional dependency than a compatibility issue. If you 'lose yourself' because someone isn't meeting an expectation, your sense of self might be too tied to them. Real love is interdependent. You take responsibility for your own 'lacking' so that your partner’s best effort is actually enough. We can grow on our own and grow together simultaneously. Honestly, this post feels like it’s just justifying the reasons for leaving instead of addressing the internal growth needed to make a relationship work.
2026-05-13 19:10:09
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