@c_cirks: A little follow up on dating with cancer and the layers that my surgery on my pelvic tumors adds to dating. I do appreciate all the comments on my video from the other day. It’s definitely a personal decision on when you drop the C word. I hope me sharing all this shows the raw, vulnerable, real side of cancer as a young woman and helps others to feel less alone in this brutal experience. #datingwithcancer #cancer #stage4cancer #youngadultcancer

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thenaughtypineapple
thenaughtypineapple :
I have small cell lung cancer and I would love to start dating but, I just feel like it is a lot for someone to take on that you are trying to get to know. If the right person comes along, great and if not that is ok too! I decided instead of dating I wanted to go back to school instead. We are starting there 🤭
2026-04-14 23:08:45
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yewdrop
Moby :
I hated a lot of those comments on that video. You have every right to pursue romantic connection. You were forthcoming about the cancer. The people you go out with are adults and can make their own decisions about dating or not dating you given the circumstances. And there are people out there who will love and appreciate you exactly as you are right now. It’s your decision either way.
2026-04-15 00:46:19
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calynjean
Calyn Thompson :
So many things to think about… it’s overwhelming! Always here for you ❤️we need to grab coffee soon!
2026-04-15 00:09:35
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faye.mp
Faye 🌸 :
If they are the one for you, they will love you for you. That’s something I’ve had to remind myself a lot because I am to comfortable with settling for bare minimum when I should be aiming for better. Keep pushing through this Clara you are so strong your journey is truly inspiring. Keep being strong and keep being you! 😊💐
2026-04-14 22:16:04
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bryannapb13
bryanna pb :
I was single when I started my cancer journey, and fairly hopeless about finding love after being diagnosed. I found my life partner almost a year after my original diagnosis and about 6 months after dating him I had a recurrence. It is so cliche and corny but for the right person it won’t be too much. That person will ride any wave of life with you and that person is out there for you. But your feelings at this moment are totally valid, it is so hard 🩷
2026-04-15 20:42:08
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kaykaywindy
Kay :
Love you Clara! 🫶🏼 thanks for being vulnerable with us! thinking of you!
2026-04-15 00:40:41
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debbie.weeks86
Debbie Weeks :
It is a lot of layers for you to deal with. I think you are doing the best you can with what you have to deal with. Don’t doubt yourself, keep moving forward and discuss your concerns with your therapist. You are a beautiful person 🥰
2026-04-14 23:22:50
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theresajoylundy
Theresa Joy Lundy :
Just remember, every decision you make is the right decision. You’re a rockstar, Clara. ❤️
2026-04-17 12:09:45
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scottwith2ts5
Scott-with-2-Ts :
Please don’t use outcomes as your measure
2026-04-14 22:16:17
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rachel.rose.tulip
Rachel Rose loves tulips :
I’m so sorry, Clara. I don’t know what else to say, except this is so fucking unfair and you should allow yourself to grieve.
2026-04-15 02:17:25
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emerald451995
Marie :
You have us ❤️
2026-04-15 00:38:12
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gigis_house7
Cindy Rose :
Romance, relationships and intimacy comes in many forms! You are beautiful in so many ways. For the moment- with impending surgery- maybe pause pursuing dating, but don’t pause that too long! It’s important to you- as it should be at this phase of life.
2026-04-15 05:08:48
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sarcomabaddie
sarcomabaddie 🎗️🇵🇸 (Fern 🩷 :
You are never too much for the right person! We get the best ones, I promise xxx
2026-04-16 16:10:33
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maryellenmoire
Mary Ellen Moire :
you are so beautiful
2026-04-14 22:31:04
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sassysoph33
SassySoph :
Thank you for sharing all parts of your journey. Glad you are going to get all your questions answered to help you make informed decisions. 🫶
2026-04-14 23:00:45
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phobulously
phobulously :
Thank you for sharing your experience; you will definitely help other young women going through this feel less alone. Praying for you🙏
2026-04-14 23:57:20
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user3528309463469
Gwynners :
Here ya… keep strong
2026-04-15 00:53:39
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jodi.jacobsen
Jodi Jacobsen :
sending prayers ❤️
2026-04-14 22:17:56
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abc291994
2994 :
I have ovarian failure, basically all my eggs died when I was 21. It does add a layer of stress dating someone new and having to tell them. I do believe it wont matter to the right person. But its hard. Thinking of you
2026-04-14 22:45:59
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maruskaj11
Rose :
Be you…lay everything on the line in the beginning. The right man will love you and stay 💕
2026-04-15 03:21:33
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maryellenmoire
Mary Ellen Moire :
my oncologist really does not talk to me about anything except what my scans say. I find them so cold. but I'm 70. as a young woman they should have someone to discuss all this with you. I see how you are hurting and struggling with all of this. my gyn has been more understanding than the oncologist.
2026-04-14 22:35:49
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andreainternet
Andrea Internet :
I think you’ll feel so much better once the pelvic tumors are removed. Keep focused on the surgery. Dating is hard for everybody!
2026-04-15 00:56:55
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felishachapmanatchley
Felisha Chapman Atch :
I have a friend that went through horrible chemo. He has a son now that he couldn’t deny if he wanted. God decides if we have babies! You know there are guys going through cancer that would love to date also. Is there in cancer dating sites? Check into that!
2026-04-15 01:19:32
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hello._.hell01
Tyga :
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTkPPJCPU/
2026-04-14 22:08:10
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ertopus
SF👑 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-04-15 22:07:13
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