fluentleader :
I agree with you, which has been why I’ve been personally wary of yt men (my husband is blk). I was fearful of these very reasons. However, I understand why some people are concerned about your content. Much of your content seems to be rooted in your trauma (not us weaponizing your trauma, it seems as if you are). Your content seems to often covertly criticize blk women (which is often done by yt women, presented as if blk women are dumb). Considering that you present as a yt woman, this can be jarring. It seems as if like everyone else you’re implying that blk women are unworthy of being loved for any other reason. Your notion of “being honest” comes off as disingenuous and demeaning, whereas if you were blk presenting like the rest of us you would know how damaging that is. Not your honesty (which I agree with, it’s your complete disregard for how it could be problematic to a group you allege to care for) You’re adding to the narrative instead of an understanding that many of us had to experience as little girls, not just from home but the outside world as well. Someone who truly understood this (especially a blk woman), would have had a more nuanced approach. It seems as if you believe that blk women are also not deserving of care and empathy, even when being told the truth. I also think that your content is centered around your trauma because statistically blk men date and marry outside of our race more than blk women (although that’s changing). Yet, your content doesn’t critique that narrative and racist yt women. Which seems as if this information is all based on your bias, hence weaponizing it against blk women. While I understand that you are racially black, your experience is still different than someone who looks like me. Your content seems more like someone from the outside claiming to be a part, based on your very unique experience. Yet, comes off as nefarious (weaponizing your racial make up), rather than being a true supporter.
2026-06-08 14:16:15