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Crimson. :

I went from being a secure attachment to an anxious attachment NEVER AGAIN

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Loving an avoidant person isn’t for the weak. It takes patience, understanding, and a strong heart. They’re not cold—they’re just scared. Scared to get comfortable, scared to commit, scared to feel the same pain again. They love you, they care about you, but sometimes they don’t know how to show it. As an anxious person, I know how hard that is. We overthink. We need reassurance. We crave closeness. Loving someone avoidant while being anxious feels like loving someone who speaks a different emotional language. But we stay. We try. We choose to understand. If you’re anxious like me, be strong. Hindi madali, pero hindi imposible. Trust the process, diba? Just don’t forget—being strong also means protecting your own heart 🫶 I'm currently giving my wifey the space she needs..kaya I'm distancing myself muna kahit gusto ko talaga Sha I-chat but I know na need ko maging firm on respecting her boundary..kaya if you're ever reading this po, I'm not ignoring you on purpose po okay? I'm just taking a step back..to let you have time to process everything, get over the challenges, and acquire your peace 🙌 I'm still here po okay?andito pa Ako and I'm not going anywhere so rest assured..once you're ready to communicate, I'm all ears,you know where to find me:))

rags_by_the_dozen :

gave him 6 years. the last two destroyed me.

𝓜 :

Wait delete this rq

Otaku :

Guys I need help my boyfriend told me he thinks that he lost feelings but we agreed to still try but I was the only one trying now we broke up but I told him I will wait for him until he can love me again, I will stay loyal as long as I have love for him and he agreed to stay loyal to.

rhai :

the fucking situation I'm in now

Iz ･:*+. :

I fear I’m living this rn….

annagrace :

i’m bored let’s delete our accounts

becks :

going through this rn. he randomly decided he needed space and doesn’t have the energy to keep up the relationship. i fought so hard and tried everything to work it out, gave him 100 ways and solutions on how to do it better but he doesn’t even listen.

robinms78 :

Literally just opened the app

✞ ☆꧁adi꧂☆ ✞ :

Timing is crazy rn

Jimmy Vice :

In the beginning i made things work. I engaged and allat, i eventually got tired of the push pull method now i just lost the spark. Shes putting in the effort now but idk i feel gone

AnneMarie :

This user :

I’m the anxious person 😔

LegacyChick :

Went from anxious to avoidant bc I dated a avoidant

Hello_kitty.due :

It already happened

Muttcake🇵🇸🍉 :

hey so this actually made me start crying

matchalatte :

bruh it actually hurts, but I'm fine I guess

Carlota🪻 :

and then i become a lil version of him and turned avoiding

STEFAN :

Listen guys, you have to realise if a person does you wrong no matter how genuine and good you were. If you learn that love is something you should always give because its always better to be good person and do everything with kindness and love the be evil. If you learn to use love as pain that build you under pressure you learn that loving is overlooked. All you have ti do is learn yourself be independent and love all your neighbours. And if they choose to do you wrong well tuff thats on them not your burden to bear. And i realised all this after this whole 6 month dealing with an amazing girl. She is not easy to love but she deserves it all. But you learn to understand that by being genuine it will help them understand themselves and always allow the person to walk independently as well. You get in relationships marry etc etc, and if they do you wrong well good on them because at least i killed you with kindness. Love is painful but amazing at the same time you have to use that painful love with your favour not against it 🙏🏻

krix :

jewell🫰🏻 :

literally us.

LilSnowCone :

Wait block me rq

_.lmaoufoundsquid :

what about if you’re both avoidant but you’re avoidant with crippling anxiety and a forgiving heart